"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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...improving yourself?

SoSuaveDude

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I see this phrase alot on this site... What exact activities and methods would you suggest to someone seeking to "improve themselves?" Other than working out and building great physique, what other things can an ambitious man partake in to "improve."
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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excelling at a hobby.
working hard or studying hard (depending on if you are still in school).
reading, traveling, getting more cultured.
 

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working toward any goal you have and achieving them. Not taking no for an answer. Erasing the word "impossible" from your vocabulary.

Goals can be anything really. Maybe you want to travel and see the world. Maybe you want to learn music or art and excel at it. Maybe you want to work hard toward your ideal career. Just think about what you want most out of life, take your ambition by the horns and go full speed toward what it is you seek to achieve.
 
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