"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ive learned how to talk to girls and be ****y and funny and draw interest in them. But the one thing I am still having trouble with is kino and kissing etc, just because im worried if she is comfortable or not. I went out with this girl last night, and i tried to do some kino but it was awkward IMO. So i dunno what to do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If she agreed to go out with you then she would be expecting some action. If you go in for the kiss etc. shes not gonna freak out or anything, you have to be confident in every move that you make, if she senses timidness its gonna make it awkaward. Just ease into the kino dont force it and make progressions.
 

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Lol.
 
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