"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Improving game while having a girlfriend?

Saosin

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I've had a girlfriend for 8 months now and I like her very deeply. The thing is, I still want to improve my game WITHOUT cheating. I just find the art of understanding woman and picking them up is kind of fascinating to me, and I'm very good at it. I always talk to female friends of mine and I know how to hold a conversation but it's getting to the point where I've hit the end of the line of everything I can do. Anything more would be cheating. I feel like I've mastered the art of picking them up, but actually going out on a date and maybe even sleeping with them I will never know because I can never try.

I guess I'm just wondering what all I can do to help practice my game without my girlfriend throwing a fit.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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08aisaac

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Well the best way to improve yourgame is to improve yorself. So like while you have a GF, focus on something besides girls. Like me when I am not busy working up the ladies, I am programming or soemthing of the sort. Try to focus on a passion or something of the related sense.
 

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Yeah, you know things like game are not discreet, there is no algorithm for it. Its like looking at a very dim star, to see it you have to look past it, never directly at it.
 
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