"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Improving Agility and Reactions

Reiki

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Best is to just play your sport, and supplement it with certain exercises.

Im no expert in becoming better in soccer but I have alot of friends that do play and are *really* good and fast , most of them have this book+dvd

Training for Speed, Agility, and Quickness
with bonus DVD
ISBN: 0736058737
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Chillisauce

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Unfortunately theres no food that will make you faster shez ;) . Drugs on the otherhand.. lets not go into that. I'm not sure about which weights you should do but someone here should know.

From a martial arts perspective, the best way to get faster is practice. Have a friend kick 100 balls at your goal each day till you get better. If you are already doing this, i suggest extreme punishment for every missed goal! Everytime your friend scores he gets to kick you in the nuts, you'll be worldclass in a matter of weeks.
 

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Originally posted by Chillisauce
Unfortunately theres no food that will make you faster shez ;) . Drugs on the otherhand.. lets not go into that. I'm not sure about which weights you should do but someone here should know.

From a martial arts perspective, the best way to get faster is practice. Have a friend kick 100 balls at your goal each day till you get better. If you are already doing this, i suggest extreme punishment for every missed goal! Everytime your friend scores he gets to kick you in the nuts, you'll be worldclass in a matter of weeks.


very good advice, except for your friend kickin your nuts;)
 

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Just stay away from ps2 and xbox the day before a big game. I remember David James *****ing about loosing his reflexes after playing video games 24/7.
 

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Could try some sprint shuttles. Look for rugby excersizes where the aim is to move quickly from a standing start into a sprint (yeah, I know you're not sprinting but....)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GodsGiftToFatBirds

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Hey I'm a keeper too.

Shuttles are probably the best way of improving your speed off the mark and speed on the turn, for a keeper though, actual footwork is more important, there's quite a few drills I've used involving going in a zig zag line around cones, or doing pylometric type exercises bouncing over balls before facing a shot at the end.

Check out the coaching manuals of Neville Southall and Peter Shilton if you can get your hands on them, i've got both and they've got a lot of excellent drills in them.

One of my favourites is one where you lie face down on the goal-line with your hands touching one of the posts, you have someone feeding a ball to the other side of the goal on a shout of 'Now', the idea being that you get off the ground as quick as poss and scramble across goal to reach it, improves your speed off the floor and footwork.
 

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i know you most likley used these before but i'll suggest them
anyways-

power cleans
clean & press

these have helpped me TREMENDOUSLY to build up explosive
power thorughout my body.
 

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Shuttles are probably the best way of improving your speed off the mark and speed on the turn, for a keeper though, actual footwork is more important, there's quite a few drills I've used involving going in a zig zag line around cones, or doing pylometric type exercises bouncing over balls before facing a shot at the end.
Godsgift is right on the money. To get the benefit out of these exercises though you also need to have a good degree of leg strength (ie weight trained) otherwise you may injure yourself. (Remember strength can be converted to power and power can be converted to speed) As well as all the normal plyometric exercises you can do (look them up on the net - they are seriously gold) an excellent sport specific one would be to do a depth jump from a platform (maybe 2 feet high) with 5 cones spread in a semicircle in front you. As you're about to land (ie youre still in mid-air) someone yells 1, 2, 3, 4 or 5 and as soon as you land you sprint hard to the corresponding cone. (maybe 10 metres away)

This exercise seems to seriously fire up the neurological pathways between brain and muscle. It'll feel awkward at first, your footwork and timing will feel somehow 'out', but trust me, you'll know when you've got it. If you want to get really specific and can get the timing right, do the depth jump as someone shoots.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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check out plyometrics... They are mainly meant to increase acceleration, speed, jumping ability, etc. But, you might be interested in reading up.
 

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If you got the money then Lifeline have a piece of equipment called jumpsoles that are used by mixed martial artists, basket ball players and footballers. The Brazilian team use them.

Plyometrics are good but you need to do lots of strength training first - you should be able to squat at least twice your bodyweight.

Look into isometrics as well and I find hardcore anaerobic stuff that makes you want to puke (ie lots of burpees, squat thrusts, shuttle runs etc.) will help.
 
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