Improve your timing with women

[rakishness]

Actors, comedians and professional speakers all know the difference between success and failure is often a matter of timing. Get that wrong and everything else falls flat.

Timing is something people learn by experience. Of course, there are some obvious things to avoid, but it's mostly about knowing two things: how to be patient and how to choose your moment. Rushed, time-limited leaders and managers usually fail on both. They can't wait, so they're unable to choose any moment but now. Hesiod, in 800 b.c., knew the importance of timing, when he wrote: "Observe due measure, for right timing is in all things the most important factor."

How do you improve your timing? The keys are patience and careful observation.

You must be ready to wait if you sense the timing isn't right. Never rush ahead anyway. In many cases, there will be only a single opportunity to present your idea or make the correct impression on an important customer. To be able to choose your time, you must be willing to pass over opportunities that don't feel right. Haste breeds anxiety, which is fatal to good timing.

Timing isn't something you're born with. It's a skill. You develop it by watching other people and monitoring your own actions. When did things work well? What were the signs? How will you spot similar situations which are likely to be just right for what you have in mind? And when did things go wrong? What should you have realized before you lost patience and spoiled your chances?

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[Babnik]

Often, if you wait... nothing will happen ever.

 

[LionOne]

timing is important in vibing. knowing when to say the thing which is related to topic and interesting rather than saying thing which is interesting but the timing is bad can make all the difference. this skill will smoothen and naturalize most interactions with women. in fact, i think this is the basis for good vibing.

timing is about regognizing the opportunity to say or do something good, not waiting for that opportunity. if u want to make something happen, then build flow to get where u want to, timing just makes everything smooth and natural.

 

[PRMoon]

I'm glad somebody understands this concept. I've been preaching the understanding of strategy and timing as of recent.

The questions you ask should start off with your own logic. Use the elements you see before you. Don't just look at her face and body. Look at the details of her clothing, or hair cut, or for any visible tatoos, something that stands out that you can form into a question. Ask questions about how long she's been in town, what she does for work, how long she's been in said profession. You also want to listen to the awnsers to these questions. If you can find one or two things per response that you can build more questions off of and re direct towards topic you're interested in, note them down and try to touch on them when you get a chance.

I'm half there with you. Life differs from chess in that it's active and if you stall for too long it will pass you by. In that way life is far more complex. I do however think that some people should take more time to think their options and moves over. Good Field Marshalls and Generals understand this in military strategics although they have a support staff in their ear giving them options and updates. Concider your actions and try to make deadlines in which you act. Strategize and conquer if you will. Play the game to come out ahead with the intentions of good things and don't give up.

Sometimes instinct is the best action of course. You'll find yourself doing something then look back on that action and see how you instinctively set yourself up for the next couple of steps, but other times realize you don't have to rush into everything. I used the lincoln quote again "If someone gave me five hours to cut down a tree, I'd spend the first four sharpening my axe". Prepare and concider if you have the time. Only good things can come of this.

When you plan things, which I must say is essential if you're with more then one girl at a time, the primary thought should be despite my efforts, there is another human involved in this equation. No matter how much you plan or how much you stragetize there will always be unintended results and concequences. Sometimes they are negative some times there are positive. So you have to start from the top down. Think about about as much as you can. Then eliminate the impossible. What you have left, no matter how improbable must be a feasible outcome. If I do A then it's possible B, C, D, and E could happen. I'm betting on B but what will I do if C, D, or E happens?

I'm not instructing myself to do anything. I'm implmenting an action plan of things I want to try. I'm curious about the outcome and what information i can gain from my moves. I know it sounds complicated but since women are my hobby, It's what I'd be doing anyway. Both of my jobs involve social interaction for the duration so, while i'm at work even, my mind is churning with ideas and theories about what's happening around me, especially in terms of women.

Summing it up it's like a game or war. You think over your next move and think about what MIGHT happen instead of expecting one single thing and going all in on that. You may choose to do nothing at all after you've thought it over. The girl(s) will react in one way or another and you begin again. You're going to make mistakes and sometimes the outcome will be something you didn't expect but as long as you learn from it and concider it for the future you're still coming out ahead.

Just to cite a few

 

[rakishness]

Prmoon,

This truly is an underated topic. That almost never gets discussed...yet is so VITAL to your game.

 

[PRMoon]

Damned right it is. Good timing and skilled planing are what got me where I am today and continue to help me excell in every way.