daddymonsterpoodle
Master Don Juan
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Well said.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Improve your looks by 3 points quickly 2.0 (add your tips/thoughts
- Thread starter nmartinez12443
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BeTheChange
Master Don Juan
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The amount of game a man needs to sleep with attractive women is inversely proportional to his looks.
I remember trying to game women after a lengthy period of almost hermit-like self improvement. Regular gym sessions, clothes shopping, new haircut, better grooming, etc. The first time I asked a girl backed to my place and she accepted I thought "Interesting". Then when I got to my bedroom and the clothes were off I passed it off as a lucky fluke. In the not too distant future I brought another girl back to my place and when I told her we should "take things upstairs" she complied. "Is it really this easy???", I thought to myself.
Yes. Yes it is.
Men should be investing energy in improving their looks if they want to do well in this game.
I remember trying to game women after a lengthy period of almost hermit-like self improvement. Regular gym sessions, clothes shopping, new haircut, better grooming, etc. The first time I asked a girl backed to my place and she accepted I thought "Interesting". Then when I got to my bedroom and the clothes were off I passed it off as a lucky fluke. In the not too distant future I brought another girl back to my place and when I told her we should "take things upstairs" she complied. "Is it really this easy???", I thought to myself.
Yes. Yes it is.
Men should be investing energy in improving their looks if they want to do well in this game.