"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Improve your life? DJ skills? SCREW IT! All BS!

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The inherit problem of this forum is that people think that by improving their own life and having control over it they will get more poon! Thats absolute BS!

Why? Because if you can PLAY women then you can be a complete loser, a total nobody, and still get a lot more ass than any DJ who is happy with his life!

What you do you want to be? A successful virgin or a nobody who gets laid?

My manly instincts say GET P*SSY. They don't say GET A BETTER JOB

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And add the fact that someone with DJ SKILLS would want QUALITY women and those are RARE.

So guess what? DJ SKILLS MASTER is also MASTER-BATES and waits until quality women come along!

You can wait for years watching porn until one comes along!

Thats LOSERISH.

DJ = loser!

PUA who is depressed is MORE of a winner than a DJ!
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Babnik said:
The inherit problem of this forum is that people think that by improving their own life and having control over it they will get more poon! Thats absolute BS!

Why? Because if you can PLAY women then you can be a complete loser, a total nobody, and still get a lot more ass than any DJ who is happy with his life!

What you do you want to be? A successful virgin or a nobody who gets laid?

My manly instincts say GET P*SSY. They don't say GET A BETTER JOB
dont know if your trollin or not,... but it does make some sense.
 

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dont know if your trollin or not,... but it does make some sense.
It makes complete sense if getting laid is your life's purpose.
 

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Babnik said:
The inherit problem of this forum is that people think that by improving their own life and having control over it they will get more poon! Thats absolute BS!

Why? Because if you can PLAY women then you can be a complete loser, a total nobody, and still get a lot more ass than any DJ who is happy with his life!

What you do you want to be? A successful virgin or a nobody who gets laid?

My manly instincts say GET P*SSY. They don't say GET A BETTER JOB


While as much fun as getting laid is (and it is), there's more to life than that. You might want to branch out a little.
 

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exactly. there are more than one way to skin a cat. if getting ***** is the ultimate goal for you.. hell ya. Go for it. Mind you.. you will always be limited in the type of women you can score for various reasons, but still you will or at least shouldn't have a problem securing sex.

But a life, at least in my opinion perusing sex, is not a life worth living. it's pointless... why spend your life chasing something that if you do what you are supposed to do, gets literary thrown at you?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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backbreaker said:
exactly. there are more than one way to skin a cat. if getting ***** is the ultimate goal for you.. hell ya. Go for it. Mind you.. you will always be limited in the type of women you can score for various reasons, but still you will or at least shouldn't have a problem securing sex.

But a life, at least in my opinion perusing sex, is not a life worth living. it's pointless... why spend your life chasing something that if you do what you are supposed to do, gets literary thrown at you?
Any woman can be played. You just have to play as if youw ere the guy who gets the good women or whatever you call them.
 

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If you're successful in life. The chicks will come along. Improvement is vital for upgrading the types of chicks you can get. If you're a 2 on everything. You will most likely get a girl who is a 2 on everything. Face it, everybody wants that trophy girl.
 

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My manly instincts say GET P*SSY. They don't say GET A BETTER JOB
Manly? Or pubertly?

Edit: Don't feed the troll!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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And add the fact that someone with DJ SKILLS would want QUALITY women and those are RARE.

So guess what? DJ SKILLS MASTER is also MASTER-BATES and waits until quality women come along!

You can wait for years watching porn until one comes along!

Thats LOSERISH.

DJ = loser!

PUA who is depressed is MORE of a winner than a DJ!
 

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Babnik said:
The inherit problem of this forum is that people think that by improving their own life and having control over it they will get more poon! Thats absolute BS!

Why? Because if you can PLAY women then you can be a complete loser, a total nobody, and still get a lot more ass than any DJ who is happy with his life!

What you do you want to be? A successful virgin or a nobody who gets laid?

My manly instincts say GET P*SSY. They don't say GET A BETTER JOB
Improving your life on this forum = Working on your attitude and mindset to attract more women
 

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What this idiotic poster doesn't realize that when you take control of your life the ***** comes to you. It seems like this forum is becoming more of a place for idiots with shiit advice to post with a few people who actually know what the fuuck they are talking about.
 

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Babnik, you are one lame mf. Your path to happiness is so full of obstacles, I hope you brought a shovel.

And besides, pu$$y is so yesterday.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The point of being a DJ is not necessarily to seek out and have sex with women. It's gaining the ability so socialize well with women and for some lose their fear of the opposite sex. This equates to life improvment on a basic level. The progessive thinking behind it can be equated to other facites of life and the tools you've gained will help in additional ways.
 

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Just last evening I was out drinking with a few co-workers. It is a known entity that I have strong social skills with women, and a good friend of mine, Josh, started running his mouth about how looks are really all that matters when it comes to women. He's a good looking guy himself, so what transpired didn't surprise me at all.

I approached the only female co-worker we were with, Bridgette, and told her I had two questions to ask her, totally off the record. The first question was, Who do you think is better looking, myself (Jared) or Josh? She paused and responded with Josh. Rightfully so he works out all the time and I'm a lazy f*ck.

The second question was, if you had to choose one of us to sleep with, who would it be? She responded with Jared.

You see, even if the average impartial broad says my buddy's slightly better looking than I am, in the long run who cares. The woman will always go for the more attractive man, and in this case, adding it all up, it was me. If this doesn't show that the DJ concept is alive than I don't know what does.
 

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maybe she just didn't want to tell you that she is already fvcking josh... that might be the one stupiest example of how to do something and think you are going to get a truthful answer on earth
 

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Alphamale1821 said:
What this idiotic poster doesn't realize that when you take control of your life the ***** comes to you. It seems like this forum is becoming more of a place for idiots with shiit advice to post with a few people who actually know what the fuuck they are talking about.
Plenty of well developed individuals to which women DO come to but these men don't know what to do! They have no idea what to talk to them!
 

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This was a chick that neither of us had any interest in and have never hooked up with.

Backbreaker do us all a favor and change your name to Poswol, you piece of sh*t waste of life. Don't appreciate the sarcasm c*cksmoke.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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