"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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shydude

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Do you know how many guys out there have confidence, but dont have the game going?

The reason is simple, most guys dont know anything about style!!

I seen many guys walking around with their underwear sticking out of their jeans, I seen some people wearing tuxedo's with WHITE sneakers. I mean COMEN, wake the fukk up and realize what your doing!! Women respect men that respects himself, and how could you respect yourself when you have hair growing out of your ears, nose and everywhere else??


Dont be afraid to ask a hair stylist which style would be better for you. YA ask him that, he or she would be glad to tell you. Some people go to a 70 year old barber that cant see shyt, and then when you come out of there you wonder why everyone says get a better hair cut!! Next time pay 10$ more and get a better hair look!! Trust me that girls will notice you more.


Now, ever seen people walking with huge T-shirts that reach your ankles?? I mean you think girls love that?? NO, they all think its GAY, but chiks will never tell you that. Go and spend about 80-150$ on really nice shoes that will last, dont go to payless and get white fake jordan sneakers and then wear them with all your clothing!! And trust me that every girls will notice your shoes.. YOU know why?? Becouse chiks are crazy about dress, shoes, styles!! Thats their life, they waste hours putting make up, trying on shoes!! Thats why guys hate going shopping with girls, becouse they waste hours choosing shoes and everything else.

And a lot of guys stink like dog shyt!! You have to take shower daily, wash your hair with shampoo, and then before leaving somewhere put on colone so you smell good! MAn are irresistable when they smell good, look clean and have style, and most important confidence.


Good luck:up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Some areas in countries are different to others e.g. I live in England and around where I live the McDonalds food sucks but go into the town center and the McDonalds food is better.

Same goes for hair stylists, the ones in my area suck and logic tells me that the best style (that they can do) is nice, simple and short.

Infact I have like a preprogrammed script in my brain to tell me to say "Number 3, all over, square in the back", and my style is clean and natural so I doubt that needs changing.

I have acne, it is going (slowly......) but nothing I can do about that I have seen the dermatologist and the best he can offer is a drug known to cause depression and suicide.

As far as clothes and style go, i'm not sure because I would personally prefer to wear plain and standard things that show formality rather than be labelled a "chav" "goth" "emo" or anything like that.
 

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I think I have a good situation.
My brother is a "hair stylist", so I can just ask him. And before anyone questions his preferences...He is straight. (Uncommon in the industry but it does happen)
 

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Eiljwa said:
My brother is a "hair stylist",

He is straight. (Uncommon in the industry but it does happen)
Man, classic case of denial...

When will you stop living in your fantasy world Eiljwa? We know you don't have a brother, and all of the hair advice you give to you friends doesn't qualify you...

and who said anything about questioning preferences? Is taht you way of throwing us off your :cheer: trail?
 

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no offense but anyone could figure out that payless shoes dont get the girls
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i am me said:
no offense but anyone could figure out that payless shoes dont get the girls

Urghh, No, see thats the reason. A lot of guys dont realize what they are wearing!! They think that women dont care, and man dont even respect themselves. They think "Why would someone even care what i wear" Well guys dont care what you are wearing, but women notice it, and they do care. So if you think that everyone can figure out that payless shoes or other bad type of shoes dont get women then you are wrong, most guys dont even know it!! They think no one will care what they have on them.
 
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