"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wilko

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Hey hey! Glad to see this thread didn't get ignored entirely. Hate it when good content gets buried.

Reykhel, I won't bore you with a blow by blow - but I did come to one interesting conclusion about bodyweight training.

Inverted Rows > Pull Ups... kind of

I personally found that there was no way for me to get in an effective (muscle-building) volume of pull-ups without frying my connective tissues. Form tweaks just shifted the stress around; if my bicep tendons weren't inflamed then my upper lat insertions would give me all kinds of grief.

Haven't had the same problem with inverted rows, and I think that's as much to do with the angle of pull as it is the reduced load.

Pull Ups will always be more impressive, but as a training stimulus I think inverted rows have some big advantages.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey hey! Glad to see this thread didn't get ignored entirely. Hate it when good content gets buried.

Reykhel, I won't bore you with a blow by blow - but I did come to one interesting conclusion about bodyweight training.

Inverted Rows > Pull Ups... kind of

I personally found that there was no way for me to get in an effective (muscle-building) volume of pull-ups without frying my connective tissues. Form tweaks just shifted the stress around; if my bicep tendons weren't inflamed then my upper lat insertions would give me all kinds of grief.

Haven't had the same problem with inverted rows, and I think that's as much to do with the angle of pull as it is the reduced load.

Pull Ups will always be more impressive, but as a training stimulus I think inverted rows have some big advantages.
I've never imagined this perspective but considering that I've done both, I must agree with you. Pull ups are impressive but rather vicious on the body. I think more people should practice the inverted row, even though it looks ridiculous.
 
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