Notice that most of the sets I open immediately fizzle/go nowhere. Probably like 3/4. Is that because I'm opening poorly or just a reasonable success rate (success meaning group is happy to talk to you)? The openers I use vary, Usually "Hey how's it going" or "How's your hot girl summer going?" Appearance-wise I look as good as I reasonably can. Any tips on how to successfully open more consistently?
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Improve opener success rate
- Thread starter gster50
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Alexandre Lucas
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In my opinion direct and indirect openers should be used according to the situation, but you can also put a neg after an opener. I think you're missing a bit of a direct opener in your examples.