So I'm spending the next couple of years working on my degree and during that time I've moved back in with my mom. My question is if I should bother with dating or if I should wait until I'm independent again.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Improve First or Game Time
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- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
There plenty of university girls that live in an apartment and it's an age that they really begin to explore their sexuality via the CC. Keep your eyes open. No law that says you have to bone one at your place.
Degree comes first though, keep your main focus on achieving that.
Degree comes first though, keep your main focus on achieving that.
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Frame. Both
If you dont practice you lose it
University is the easiest place to meet people thus alot of chicks, who are all looking for a ONS after intense studies... so also know your University bar.
You'll never be at à better. Place to expérience it all. About the mom living at your place (that's right).. all in your head
If you dont practice you lose it
University is the easiest place to meet people thus alot of chicks, who are all looking for a ONS after intense studies... so also know your University bar.
You'll never be at à better. Place to expérience it all. About the mom living at your place (that's right).. all in your head
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Know this... the more you improve the less interested in women you will become.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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You'll also hopefully realize that they are not worth improving for and are below you anyway, despite the fact that "the market" prices them high.
It's false advertising.
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