Impromptu IHOP "Date"

[sandman6991]

Impromptu IHOP "Date"- UPDATE w/ some decent convo

Ok...here's the story boys! I've had a real bad string of luck lately...but, just when it seems as though I was out of options, I get thrown a bone of hope...it's the way life works...you may get knocked down...but you're never completely out until you refuse to get up.

I started talking to this girl on facebook around the end of March/ early April...she goes to a school around 20 minutes away from me...not TOO bad...maybe a little longer...and we hit it off well...she begins to like me...and I actually play hard-to-get and don't seem overly interested in her too...I'm finally on top of an interaction...we even talk about how we were possibly going to be boyfriend/girlfriend...I had a date set with her on a Saturday...but took her to a dance at my school that Tuesday...it went great...we were getting along perfectly...laughing...flirting...and I was pretty much the hero of the school for bringing her there...she is very hot...things went well though...so I planned to make things official...while walking her back to her car...I asked her to be my girlfriend...she said that she wasn't ready for a relationship. Ouch! Yeah...so the Saturday didn't pan out...as if you were wondering...

But we kept talking some...a couple of weeks later...she began dating her ex again...since she still liked him...but we still talked a TAD...now three weeks ago or so...she broke up with him...and we talked a little...I began gaming her again...things went pretty well...nothing great...then I texted her a little more last week...and scored a "touchdown for her" in Friday night's football game...

Me and friends were hanging out Saturday...and she texted me asking what I was doing that night...I said we were going to IHOP...and kidded that she should join the party...she COMES!

I'm sitting there with two of my pals at IHOP...and she comes with a friend! He's a dude...but they're not dating or anything...and he's fat anyways...she looked GREAT!! And we hit it off just like we had it before...it went perfectly! We also have plans to go to Starbucks next Saturday after she gets off work...idk if it's technically a "date"...but I'd like it to be...how should I communicate that?

Also need some advice on the general situation...I'd like to get this girl!

 

[miba]

nice. how long did it take for you to get to meet her in person after talking

 

[sandman6991]

It took me around two/three weeks

 

[miba]

were you talking to her on the phone before you met in person? Also, how did you organize doing something? Did you just say 'hey, wanan meet for lunch' or something like that?

 

[sandman6991]

Actually...I haven't talked to her on the phone yet.

I used the internet (AIM/facebook) for things at first...and when I got her number, I just used it for texting.

The meet was a dance thing at my school...so I just asked her if she'd come with me to that.

 

[sandman6991]

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!

I love my luck. I've got a date planned for Saturday night...I'm finally catching a break!

NOT!

Hahaha...my mom has a birthday supper planned with my grandma and the family....hahahahaha

If I were to catch a break, I wouldn't be me!

 

[sandman6991]

Me: hey...you got a second real quick?
Her returned at 6:40:17 PM.
Her: i do now..
Me: i do too
Me: i didnt think you were gonna be on so i went to do a paper....
Me: which i dont really wanna do
Me: so thanks!
Her: i just got home
Her: sorry
Me: no...trust me...i REALLY dont want to do the paper...
Her: i don't want to do mine either
Me: talking to you is a better excuse for not doing it than bugging the cat
Her: haha
Her: whens it due?
Me: thursday
Her: ahh you got plent a time
Me: but i have a test in AP bio tomorrow over 4 chapters!
Her: let me say...haha
Her: but j/k
Her: but seriously
Me: haha! you're too nice
Her: i know
Me: our teacher is BRUTAL! he's like the dude on ferris bueller
Her: o geezzzz,.........whats your paper on?
Me: how the energy of fission and fusion correspond to the sun..which is the basis of all energy
Her: eeeh my paper is much better
Me: what's that?
Her: my biography and how i die..and my contributuin to the world
Me: that's a positive class...
Me: i can see it now..."greatest achievement: meeting me"
Her: bahahaha..yes indeed, and ive wrote 5 paragraphs on 5 pages, and im only on middle school so this thing will probally be 20 pages long
Me: someone's full of themself...
Her: yes i am
Her:
Me: i am too though...i tried being full of other people when someone said something...but that didn't work out too well
Her: so all you can d is bee full of yourdelf
Me: speaking of being full of myself...look at this
Her:..
Me: Class 5A RANK TEAM RECORD LAST WEEK THIS WEEK 1 Smyrna 1-0 Beat Siegel 41-13 at Brentwood 2 Whites Station 1-0 Beat Covington 46-6 Open 3 Franklin 0-0 Game with Hillsboro ruled incomplete at McCallie 4 William Blount 1-0 Beat Sevier Co. 27-0 vs. Dobyns-Bennett 5 Riverdale 1-0 Beat Oakland 14-0 at Antioch
Me: it didnt show up too well
Me: but we're #4 in the state this week!
Her: nice my friend..impressive
Me: before i forget...when do you work on saturday again?
Her: 3-9
Her: h/o
Me: k
Her: back
Me: well it sure took ya long enough!
Her: i had to go to the trash can
Me: excuses....are like noses...everyone has one
Her: hahahahaha
Her: snakes don't
Me: snakes dont go to the trash can either...
Her: they could..
Her: dude I don't want to be rude..but
Her: I have to do my paper , its due tommorow morning..
Me: that's cool dude
Me: before you go though...you doing anything after work saturday?
Her: not that i know of..
Me: if you want...i can do starbucks or something then
Me: but i'll cya later
Her: ok that'll work..we'll talk about it later
Me: peace!
Her: c-yaaa

 

[sandman6991]

I think I did pretty well...circumstances have bitten me again...

 

[Carbine]

Quite liked that, good job.