"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Impressive daygame pickup (video link)

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZnxpPD07cgE&feature=channel_page

Just wanted to know your views on this kind of daygame pickup...

This guy has quite a few on his youtube channel similar to this, and for me, its something I am trying to aspire to become...I think it works really well for him because he is so relaxed, it really puts the woman at ease...

Im getting sick of going out to bars and clubs where girls have b!tch shields on!!

Have any of you guys managed similar pickups in daytime?

Dj In Hell
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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daygameguy

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I have done very similar stuff a few times. He uses the concepts of being interesting and demonstrative value (much like MM). His approach style is really well tuned for day game.

I have a similar thing, I am more chill and relaxed, and don't like the club scene where you have to push yourself abnormally, and everyone has a stupid FAKE social mask on.

I am going to try to move to a city/country which is conducive to such a relaxed form of game.
 

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Notice the changes in her body language. For the first half, she is half turned away and tries numerous times to eject, but he pulls her back in. In the second half, she is facing him directly and even looks nervous (playing with her hair, her arm, the strap of her bag).

The transition to him number closing her and then following her is purposely left out, but obviously this is an important part we're missing since it's the make or break moment in the interaction. Too bad I don't feel like looking on his website.
 

daygameguy

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Quite honestly, such minor reactions (from the girl) will happen naturally and you don't need to think about it. Also, most of the social calibration you must already be born with or developed growing up in society.

So don't worry about it.

If you have no AA, you are not socially retarded, look clean and groomed, and have a interesting verbal and non-verbal approach, you will most often leave a very good impression, and be able to #close.
 
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