Im gonna get straight to the point. My brother needs help. He and this girl are real good friends and they happened to go see a movie at her house. It was just him and her there by themselves. After the movie she was flipping through channels. Then she laid on his chest, gave him the triangle stare and they made out. But he doesn't want to date her and he's needs a way to turn her down but still be friends with her. Any advice?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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