important! we discuss to less about plates in the first stadium !

[TheGambino]

Guys I think its important to discuss waaay more about the a beginning plate. What if you got a number and the girl is a bit interested and your trying to get a date settled, or get her to send you text messages, basic. get her interest level up that she chases you!

I meet a lot of girls that make clear: a boy has to chase a girl and just stay silent until you message her.

how do u get their interest level up without bein needy and that afc stuff

all opinions welcome !!!

 

[Clooney4life]

I've never met a girl worth having that I had to chase. It's your job to start the conversation to set a date as a man, it shows you go after what you like, but if she flakes or seems like she wants you to jump through hoops just to get the privilege of taking her out... then next... Sorry she isn't that interested in the first place... When they like what they see they make it very easy... Remember a woman is supposed to make YOUR life easier

 

[GS750]

I've never met a girl worth having that I had to chase. It's your job to start the conversation to set a date as a man, it shows you go after what you like, but if she flakes or seems like she wants you to jump through hoops just to get the privilege of taking her out... then next... Sorry she isn't that interested in the first place... When they like what they see they make it very easy... Remember a woman is supposed to make YOUR life easier

Good advice. I had a girl I met recently online who wanted me to drive 40 miles to bring her coffee at work so she could meet me. I gave that the refusal. She went ghost soon after. But that was fine by me haha. I can only imagine where the demands would go from there.

 

[cordoncordon]

Can someone clue me in as to what the title of this thread means? I'm lost.

Seems like gibberish to me.

People discussing less about girls while in a stadium?

 

[GS750]

I think he means an arena where we can discuss the beginnings, where you've just met and she seems to be playing hard to get, mixed signals, or she wants to be chased. What to do in those circumstances. But the OP should clarify

 

[TheGambino]

GS750 thats exactley what I mean. im Dutch tho.
how to get low to half interested girls that gave their number to chase you instead of you doin all the work in the beginning.

what if you know she thinks about you, you sure shes interested but she just refuses to contact you or double text you, you wait till she sends something even if it takes days or weeks or you just keep doin the work at the beginning

thats my question. this partic girl i like is waiting for me to do all the contacting

 

[Tomthebomb]

Guys I think its important to discuss waaay more about the a beginning plate. What if you got a number and the girl is a bit interested and your trying to get a date settled, or get her to send you text messages, basic. get her interest level up that she chases you!

I meet a lot of girls that make clear: a boy has to chase a girl and just stay silent until you message her.

how do u get their interest level up without bein needy and that afc stuff

all opinions welcome !!!

why are you trying to get her to send you text messages? why are you trying to get her interest level up that she chases you? women worry about this crap, and play these covert games, are you a women? men do and take what they want.

you have her number, text her to either meet at location x at time y. kiss her and f.u.c.k her. if you want to see her again, text her to meet at location z at time w.

its not difficult.

 

[Zarky]

I had a girl I met recently online who wanted me to drive 40 miles to bring her coffee at work so she could meet me. I gave that the refusal. She went ghost soon after. But that was fine by me haha. I can only imagine where the demands would go from there.

That's extremely wise. People let you know who they are very quickly. You're right, the demands would have gone sky-high really fast.

The problem with lots of guys -- especially younger guys -- is that they don't have many options. Therefore, they will take sh*t like that from women. That's one of the reasons that young (18-25 yo) women are so colossally difficult to deal with... guys their age have been kissing their asses since they were 12. Because those young guys have no other options.

Which is why I always tell guys: get some sort of women in your rotation right away. They can be chicks you're not particularly interested in. They can be 4s, 5s and 6s. The reason you do it is because now you have some sort of fallback. You have some options even if they're not great options.

Then you can swap those girls out with hotter ones when you're able to get the hotter ones. But you can't get those hotter ones without options.

 

[GS750]

That's extremely wise. People let you know who they are very quickly. You're right, the demands would have gone sky-high really fast.

The problem with lots of guys -- especially younger guys -- is that they don't have many options. Therefore, they will take sh*t like that from women. That's one of the reasons that young (18-25 yo) women are so colossally difficult to deal with... guys their age have been kissing their asses since they were 12. Because those young guys have no other options.

Which is why I always tell guys: get some sort of women in your rotation right away. They can be chicks you're not particularly interested in. They can be 4s, 5s and 6s. The reason you do it is because now you have some sort of fallback. You have some options even if they're not great options.

Then you can swap those girls out with hotter ones when you're able to get the hotter ones. But you can't get those hotter ones without options.

Yeah that request sent up a red flag. She was definitely a HB8 but as soon as she said something along the lines of "I'm a girl and I get what I want" I lost interest.