"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bvbidd

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She does not mean supplicate as in give presents.

She means by nature guys naturally have the urge to have sex much more often then females. (I never said they enjoy it more, probally less.. just by nature they get the urge to do it more.)

By nature men really are the slave gender. But who gives a fvck? It has nothing to do with you personally. Men are just driven to have sex more and women are just driven to choose who to have sex with. That's how it's always been and always will be.

She does not mean worship women as people. Just realize by nature we really are the slaves when it comes to sex. By nature all life is meaningless too, does that mean we should all commit suicide and take the logic personally? No.

She's speaking on a philosophical level, she's not saying women are just plain better people in general.

You have to be able to seperate your life from philosophical truth bullsh!t that's what being mentally healthy means. To life your life happily without worrying about things that don't affect you. That is the logic behind not over analyzing things.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mrRuckus said:
I feel robbed of my soul by you for having to read garbage from a mind that is garbled and educated about to about a 6th grade level in grammar.
Looks like you should've educated yourself in proofreading :crackup:

My current definition of alpha was defined by Pook and myself pretty much... to not give a damn what people think and go about my business how I see fit and suddenly everyone that's not stupid likes me and women are suddenly attracted to me without me doing anything but having a good time.
Good for you...want a cookie? How about contributing something to this thread?
You've certainly perfected the alpha act- but there's no reason to be such a d!ck.
 

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lol and mr. ruckus you just proved her point. You don't give a damn what people think and go about your business but then in the same sentence brag about how women are becoming attracted to you. If you didn't care what people thought of you why would you feel the need to write that out in the same sentence even?

lol see if you said that with a chick around you would not look alpha at all.
 
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You're basically saying its not worth it to give your heart to a girl because she can easily break it. I agree, isn't the divorce rate like 97.325 percent?

However, there is a dilemna, what if I want to give my heart to a girl? I've had my heart broken so many times I feel like I have no more heart to give, so in a way I'm completely safe now!
 

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If you want to give your heart to a girl then give your heart to a girl. Just why would you expect anything in return?

If a girl gave her heart to you would suddenly feel you must be with her and only her? Hell no.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ok danjuanforever.

Intresting post i read about this women perceptions on things.

In truth she is right about 80% of the stuff she posted.
But still she again falls into the trap of looking at one sided perspective again.

the love part is spot on and a must read.

But sadly the rest of the post, degenerates into steriotypical trends that simply should not be taken at face value.

I can pick out alot of points if you want me to, but the sad thing is.

The post will be very long and ppl dont like to read long posts, but since this is directed to you daunjaun! I will make a reply if it is read.

Otherwise there is simply no point.

All i will say is dont read all of it as gospel truth.

not all men pander to puzzy, remember this as always been my line all along as was pooks and alot of other guys on here, your simply misunderstanding the message that is simply trying to be put across.

Dating guru's give tips and regardless of what this women thinks, they work, tricks indeed but still dont percieve women to be masters of there own reality, just like men they are equally messed up, assuming this women remarks are gospel is not wise.

80% is good advice 20% is over hyped Stereotypical perceptions from a very biased view point.
 
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