"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Important Training Links

Oleo

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I've decided to compile links to various sites and articles that provide valuable insight into contemporary training and nutrition methodology. This is all considerably more involved than Diesel's bulking guide, but is all based in hard science, NOT on "it works for me" rhetoric. If you are really serious about gaining muscle mass in an optimal matter, then it would be wise of you to investigate these links and learn as much as you can.

I'll try to add to and update this every once in a while, if possible. Just post if a link doesn't work and I'll try to find it somewhere else. I hope this is helpful to people, and I hope it encourages a much more knowledgeable atmosphere about training on this board.


Training:

Hypertrophy Specific Training (HST) –Bryan Haycock
http://hypertrophy-specific.com/hst_index.html

Dual Factor Hypertrophy Training –Matt Reynolds
http://www.asylum-strength.com/dual.htm

Training Theory –Animal Mass (Matt Reynolds), AngelFace, and John Smith
http://www.superiormuscle.com/showthread/t-1479.html

Training Frequency –Bryan Haycock
http://www.thinkmuscle.com/articles/haycock/hst-02.htm

Mass Building Exercises -Big Daddy Shane
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=138288


Nutrition:

Eating for Size –Bryan Haycock
http://www.hypertrophy-specific.com/HSreport/iss04/eat_size.html

Pre/Post Exercise Nutrition –Bryan Haycock
http://www.hypertrophy-specific.com/hsn_artcls_prepostnutri.html

The Baseline Diet, Part 1 –Lyle McDonald
http://www.thinkmuscle.com/articles/mcdonald/baseline-diet-01.htm

The Baseline Diet, Part 2 –Lyle McDonald
http://www.thinkmuscle.com/articles/mcdonald/baseline-diet-02.htm

Creatine, Studies and Info
http://www.fortifiediron.net/invision/index.php?showtopic=650

Recipes
http://www.fortifiediron.net/invision/index.php?showtopic=2001

Fitday
http://www.fitday.com/


Exercise Descriptions:

ExRx Exercise Directory
http://www.exrx.net/Lists/Directory.html

BSU Exercise Directory
http://www.bsu.edu/webapps/strengthlab/home.htm

Olympic Full Body Exercise Directory
http://strengthtraining.asimba.com/fitness_info/muscle_group68.html

Squat Theory and Execution –Arioch
http://www.asylum-strength.com/articles/squat.htm

The Bench Press –Arioch
http://www.asylum-strength.com/articles/bench.htm

The Deadlift –Arioch
http://www.asylum-strength.com/articles/deadlift.htm


Training/Nutrition Forums:

Avantlabs forum
http://www.avantlabs.com/main.php

HST forum (check out the FAQ section)
http://www.hypertrophy-specific.com/cgi-bin/ib3/ikonboard.cgi

Fortified Iron forum
http://www.fortifiediron.net/invision/index.php?act=idx

More to come...

-Oleo
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need-2-B-Pimpin

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Awesome guide, but what exactly is hypertrophy?
 

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Originally posted by Need-2-B-Pimpin
Awesome guide, but what exactly is hypertrophy?
hypertrophy - an increase in muscle mass, primarily from the growth of a muscle cell, not an increase in the number of cells.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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California Love, I browse those forums but rarely if ever post. I rarely post anywhere, actually. I've been on this forum for about a year now and I only have about 20-some posts. Good definition for hypertrophy, btw. Also, an increase in the number of muscle cells is called hyperplasia.

These links are, for the most part, universally applicable whether you're a hardgainer, a mesomorph, an endomorph, an average lifter, or a pro. In fact, these articles are far more useful to the average, non-pro, non-steroid lifter because of their base in hard science. Most of the training theory you get today is based on what worked for guys on steroids, not biological and physiological principles.

I'm glad you guys are digging this.

-Oleo
 
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