Important Relationship Thread

[the_azn_fu]

as stated in the "natural progression of a relationship" from the DJ bible, stage 1: interest and attraction, stage 2: infatuation and falling in love, stage 3: the comfort zone, stage 4: mature love.

I have been dating this girl for 7 months and we are deep into the "comfort zone" and she is worried that things wont work out. we go to the same school as well.
any tips on how to jump back to stage 2: infatuation and falling in love again?
i think this is a major dilemma in most LTRS.

also, any other LTR suggestions or tips? thank you

 

[True Wolf]

Perhaps, take her on a date, distance a little, but not enough to really worry her, but make every time you're together magical to her. It's the times when you're together that it isn't spectacular that puts things into the compfort zone.

But what worries me is that she seems to think it wont work out. Have you given her reason to do so? Has she had similar relationships that have fallen through on her? There has to be a reason, and squelching that reason would be a plus.

 

[the_azn_fu]

thanks for the reply.
well its difficult for us becuase we both go to college and we have one class together. and we are both on the basketball team so there isnt time to see each other on the weekdays. so things have become a bit mundane for the both of us. i dont know how to change it up in everyday life.

also, i thought to myself, whats the point of an LTR when you dont want to marry that person because you are too young?
any thoughts on that?
thanks