Lordlaxative
Don Juan
If you had to choose 10 or less things that DJ should always remember or remember to be, what would they be? (Like if he was going to memorize them or carry them around in his pocket.)
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.