"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Important Matters about pickup Lines

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Don Juan
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Sometimes we look for some secret guaranteed to work script or chat lines that might seduce some womans in the planet. Yes " Its great" if there would be some magic words (or any of those crap) that we could use to instantly attract or seduce women. But THERE ARE NONE!

Canned or corny pick-up lines just don't work! Use them and you will end up rejected and frustrated.

I can share some important things about pickup lines though. There are no such pickup lines so, it doesn't matter what you say, what matter is how you do it is important. Most guys try to memorize some ice breaker lines and to end up addressed by a women as horny or something like that when they say them.

First of all, you can move slowly, look for signal that you can you to a woman you want to approach. The eye contact is the most important factor in this matter. You want to let her know that you are interested before you walk up to her for an approach. Most AFC's just popup from nowhere and throw some crap canned cheezy pickup lines... I suggest not, most probably she have heard a thousand times of that already. And of course, they get reject big time! So use the silent pickup, "THE EYE CONTACT" before you try a verbal attempt.

Alway maintain a GOOD POSTURE whenever you approach a woman.

As for the line to use... stay away from those "SEVEN MAGIC WORDS" or related crap they won't do you any good.

The pickup lines should be:

1. A Compliment
2. A Question
3. A Short Talk

Every woman in every situation is different, whatever you say usually in a matter of a second (Quick, lightning speed as you do it) and the more women you approach, the easier you can do it.

For example, I see a HB in a vegetable stand, I may walk up to her ans say "Hi... You look cuter than average girls in a vegetable stand... Are you friendly?" A combination of a comliment and a question, would make a reply with a slight smile from her, or if you had her on you might get a laugh. then I will go and say "By the way my name is <...>, Do you have an email?...<pause for effect>" then I will put out a piece of paper and a pen, usually a gel like ink pure black (not a suggestion though, you can have any pen as long as it has an ink). Then say "Could you write it down for me here..." (giving her the paper and pen). "Please write down your name there too and if you have a phone put them in there too..." Then after that, I'll take the pen and paper and say "It was nice meeting you...(reading her name on the paper)" and then leave.

Now the most interesting thing about pickup is not the line itself... But what HAPPENS after. I have seen some who have done many times picking up but end up in horror after doing the approach Paralized in a dead silence after giving the compliment, or the questions or the small talk.

Most guys think pick up lines are for sex or related things... etc. They think player can just say something magically and go home with her... You might when in a bar... And you need to be a real good conversationalist to do that, how about if you are just a newbie? The real purpose of the pick-up line is to lead to the next level...

You will now have a good plans of asking her out now that you have her name and number.

-WIND20MPH-
"You will never see the wind... but you will always feel their presence and sicerity..."
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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