"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DAMN YOU TEXT GAME,

Long story short
So I was invited to a party[ it was yestarday] where I knew one person, turns out, lotsa females.

We play some board games, watch the world cup.

Then only the people that live in that flat stay, well excluding me because I hooked up with a chick that lives there.

Fast forward today, The girl that invited me in the first place, ask me how the party was and that she sorry that she was tired and stuff, and that she doesnt know what happened after she went to sleep AND THAT HER FRIEND IS ASKING FOR MY NUMBER.

So Im like,

BLD1: xxx xxx xxx, you have it already so pass it to her if anything.

Partyhost: I know, I just wanted to ask.

Now this chick texts me something like :

M: ''Hey its M ( i know that ;) ) partyhosts roommate, Im writing to you bcuz i dont remember everything and i though maybe you could tell me what was happening.''


Well we banged thats what happened but Im lost what to respond what she expects : O



[NOTE: there was a really pretty chick , which is M's friend . Me and some betanerdguy walked her off to a bus stop and I took her business card. Now I dont want to fvck it up, since im interested in that dancer girl I took the card from. Just shows I need more infield practice :p ]

I know she knows but she wants to know what I think ^^ ASD ALERT
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MidnightCity said:
"im a little hazy myself i think we both had a bit much to drink"
THANK YOU! This is simmilar to what I'v been thinking.

Is it okay to add

''I dont remember much myself, you wanted me to stay but I left.'' which what happened, after we were done.

Seems a little unnessecary on my part tho , what is your oppinion
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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