Importance of third level thinking, what the girl thinks of you!

[lynch1000s]

Just curious, I've noticed that a lot of guys simply think of what they think of women.

But if you want to get women, and know if they like you, you have to think about what they are thinking of you.

As an example in poker:
If any of you have ever played poker, there are different levels of thinking.

1st level: You are only thinking about your own hole cards.
2nd level: you are thinking about your opponent's hole cards.
3rd level: you are thinking about what your opponent thinks your hole cards are.

If you don't understand what I'm saying, oh well, then you won't get the rest of my post.

Anyways, this can be translated to DJing. A guy who yells out of their car and says "hey baby," or some guy who goes to a club and using a cheesy pick up line is thinking on the first level. They are only thinking about the fact that they like a girl.

Then second level thinking. You can read a girls body language. You see a girl smile at you, and you think, hey maybe this girl thinks I'm cute. I should talk to her.

Well second level thinking is okay, and it seems that most of the people on these forums can think on the second level.

But I think to become a DJ, you have to think on the third level. You have to think about what a girl is thinking about you!

When thinking on the third level, you also have to know how to read a girl's body language and such (same as second level thinking), but third level thinking allows you to get a feel for the girl, and you project body language that allows her to get a feel for you.

In otherwords, you have to project confidence, project the fact that you like the girl, project the fact that you think a girl is sexy, or fun, or whatever. If a girl is trying to "read you" to see if you are attracted to her, because she likes you, then guess what... You got a date! But you have to make sure you project the right signs to show her that you are interested in her!

And if anyone disagrees with what I'm saying, then you are definately an AFC

 

[Poonani Maker]

Good post. I like it. And oftentimes, I AM the 3rd-level thinker. It's as if I'm always 'toying' with the woman before me. I KNOW my cards are stacked. It's just a matter of getting her to see my cards, one card at a time and not the whole hand outright. It's all about mind-fvcking HER, to gain access to her panties.

 

[Bonafide]

No hard feelings here Poonani Maker, but I mean is that your only intention? Do you just simply want to get laid?

 

[Ease]

One of your better posts.

I've seen my older cousin do this, telling me about girls. We were waiting at traffic lights in his car when a couple of girls rolled up beside us. He looked over, smiled and winked at them, they giggled and loved it. Then he raked the engine and wheelspinned off the traffic lights and left them behind. I was left in awe at how smooth he was at the time.

It's a natural way to flirt. You show a little attention and watch them reciprocate. This is one of those well known moves of game by regular men.

 

[lynch1000s]

I know exactly what you mean. Luckily it isnt poker, I don't think girls think on a 3rd level about guys. It would be fun to play games with a girl who did. You know shes a keeper if she does.

I think that girls think on the 3rd level more naturally then guys do. But they do it purely subconsiously. With guys though, they may do it on a level where they have to really think about it.

But overall, I don't think guys really think on the third level either. Even reading this message board, most guys seem to be stuck at level 2, and don't even realize that level 3 exists.