"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Importance of looks.

martins

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How important is looks at high school? I have heard it is much more important than later, is it true? The thing is it possible to get some really hot girl while not having so good looks, just with game. I mean naturally I am not good looking. . Even if I am well groomed, have nice clothes, my looks is not as good as the looks of most other persons. I have pretty athletic body, but my face is just not that nice. And I wear glasses... Gotta get rid of these soon.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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intrextrovert

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Stay clean
Brush your teeth
Wear deodorant
Work out (!)
Wear contacts (but if you have glasses that look good/alright on you they're probably fine)

In more than 99% people if they keep these up they can get very hot girls.
 
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well i heard that girls like ( according to looks)
good hair
muscles
and a smile
thats all you need man to become a good looking guy
 

War Against Betaism

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From my experience good looks are the same in just about every age, it just depends on the women. Good looking guys have a head start amongst other guys, but that's all it is, an advantage. And while you think things like being well groomed and having nice clothes don't matter if you don't have the face, it might actually matter more than being really good looking believe it or not! (Unless you're REALLY badass and live in a trailer park home).

A girl wants a guy that can take care of himself. If they know a guy doesn't know how to take care of himself, how do they expect the guy to take care of them?

Don't be discouraged by the lack of immediate results, it will all come in time and finally fall in place. If you want some good material to go by, click on the three links in my signature. All of those things have made me into what I am today.
 
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