Immediate Help, Virgin related

[whatdude]

Hey dudes... So I've been seeing this girl for about two months now, and we totally like one another...I know it sounds dumb or whatever but I really have feelings for her. However, ... she has had sex before with her previous boyfriends... and I am still a virgin. I don't know what to do.. i seriously need any type of help i can get. Please.. I don't want to look like an idiot in front of her. Im 19 shes 20.. thanks guys.

And if anyone thinks ''who says youre gonna get laid'' or whatever.. she is aching for it.. I know it, but im scared.

Any help at all please.

Thanks again.

 

[Caveman]

And if anyone thinks ''who says youre gonna get laid'' or whatever.. she is aching for it.. I know it, but im scared.

Dude, don't be scared. Just go for it, it's not that hard. If she notices anything and you really don't want her to know you're a virgin, you can tell her you've had some 'bad experiences' with previous girls..

 

[DJ Alejandro]

if she wants it, youll know. its your turn.

 

[Spookey]

you dont know what to do?
seriously dude, use your brain.

everyone knows what to do, evolution has hardwired it into your brain.

the first step involves contraceptives.
the second step is mainly about clothing removal.

remember to make an effort, nothing screams teenage desparation like the backseat of a car. find a time when a house is unoccupied.

quit being scared. what is she going to do, laugh and walk out? if she likes you, you shouldn't be afraid. it is cute that you are scared of not being good enough but dont worry, you have to start somewhere, and if she wants it, you might as well start with her

 

[Last Man Standing]

Dude, don't be scared....it's not that hard..

Haha. this is the problem!!

 

[typical]

Yea man follow them animal instincts , just dont rush things aight and have fun

 

[Egoist]

well basically you put your ding-ding in her ho-ho.

 

[everywomanshero]

You might want to read some basics, but you can;t store too much in your brain. It's going to take a while. Most importantly make sure you know how to put on a fvcking condom in advance. Hell, I've used thousands and I still don't know how to figure out which way it rolls on in the dark yet. I guess my finger tips just aren't very sensitive. Definitely start googling how to eat *****, there used to be a really good online guide but I can no longer find it. Maybe you will.

David Shade is alleged to have good sexual technique advice. I listened to an interview with him and all he seemed to do was ramble. Maybe his stuff might be worth checking out, though.

 

[DJsparky]

learn foreplay, be better then her previous boyfriends and you can do this by reading the d.j bible sex section,

but i'll give you some tips:

1. softly and gently rub her body with your finger tips, this will get her aroused.

2. anticpation is your friend, when she wants it, wait a little bit and tease her with it.

3. also women have alot of g spots on there body, but there main ones are: nipples(haha i said nipples), cl!t and an inch in her pu$$y, also her neck and nibbling on her ear lobe.

Remember never be nervous, be calm confident and you'll do better and for a bonus i guarentee that her exs havent even used foreplay on her.

 

[whatdude]

Thanks for the help so far.. but i think my problem is, i think im going to blow like immediatley.. she is ****in smokin.. I mean come on, when in watch a good porn i come quicker... this is my fear.. AND no matter what ill be nervous.. any help with that? I know im such a chump loser asking all this.. im just worried. Would she be turned off if i had to change the rubber like 4 times? lol seriously..how would i say something like that ''oh i think it ripped''.. any advice?

 

[ev3nst3v3n]

dude, like everyone is saying. don't worry about it. you will no doubt *** fast at first. but if you please her in other ways it shouldn't be too big of a problem. and also, like you're saying if she REALLY likes you, it won't be a problem at all.

but when you do cvm way too fast. just tell her to give you 20-30 minutes and then fvck her again! then the next day, repeat process. enjoy, don't be afraid.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

Hey dudes... So I've been seeing this girl for about two months now, and we totally like one another...I know it sounds dumb or whatever but I really have feelings for her. However, ... she has had sex before with her previous boyfriends... and I am still a virgin. I don't know what to do.. i seriously need any type of help i can get. Please.. I don't want to look like an idiot in front of her. Im 19 shes 20.. thanks guys.

And if anyone thinks ''who says youre gonna get laid'' or whatever.. she is aching for it.. I know it, but im scared.

Any help at all please.

Thanks again.

So what if you won't be great in the sack the first time? You have to start somewhere. Do your best and just enjoy it. Try going down on her a little bit too.

I've banged quite a few girls and still feel mediocre at times.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

Dude, don't be scared. Just go for it, it's not that hard. If she notices anything and you really don't want her to know you're a virgin, you can tell her you've had some 'bad experiences' with previous girls..

When I was a virgin, I had been telling my gf I had already f*cked four girls before her.

 

[Bible_Belt]

lube

 

[SamePendo]

I recommend you going down on her first.. that will get you relaxed. Look for tips on going down.

 

[coolguy676767]

I am surprised no one mentioned this yet, go to the DJ bible, go to sex section and read them all, but the one that you need to make sure you read if your read nothing else, is the Sir-Chancelot's guide, some of its kind of advance but at least you will get the idea, but read them all and search on the net.

 

[Caveman]

If you're worried about blowing too fast.. Haven't you ever heard of 'spaking the monkey' before 'partying'?

 

[whatdude]

I know you guys are getting sick of me talkin about this.. but im not asking for any further help, I'm going to follow all of your guys' advice.. I truly appreciate it. However, i just found out this girl is alergic to latex .. lol .. yea, so she takes birth control and she told me that i can't wear a condom.. so now, im truly ****ed.. i was planning on wrapping it twice to reduce the feeling lol.. damn..

Later

 

[DJsparky]

numb your penor

 

[whatdude]

wow. that sounds like a bad ass idea.. but how the hell do i numb my johnson? lol