"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So I have learned that my ex gf, unlike any other girl I have ever dated, gets mad at me when she does something ****ty or wrong herself. Instead of feeling remorse or taking responsibility for saying or doing something she instead is mad at me (or anyone else ive noticed - siblings, coworkers) .

Looking back for example, After a great week , on the weekend the gf decides to have an emotional flip out over nothing and ruin the days plans. So monday I wasnt happy go lucky so she became mad at me because I was annoyed she ruined the day. Instead of being nice or sweet she just becomes mad and mean.

Looking back i have 100 examples of this. I even told her she was the only person i met who is mad at you when you are unhappy from her mistreating you.

What the **** kind of person is mad at you and mistreats you because u are not happy that they were ****ty in the first place?

Is this a bipolar trait or sociopathic?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It falls under gas lighting. So she makes a stench and does the poopy face like it's everyone but her. It's pretty $hitty behavior. If your not done with her spend more time on yourself. And the next time she ruins you guys plans drop her immature a$$ back home and do it with someone else or by yourself.
 
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Don't you get it it was your fault in the first place so why you should you be mad at her. Lol

Remember woman run on emotional logic not rational logic. Every time you expect their behaviour to be rational you won't get your needs met.
 
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ubercat said:
Don't you get it it was your fault in the first place so why you should you be mad at her. Lol

Remember woman run on emotional logic not rational logic. Every time you expect their behaviour to be rational you won't get your needs met.
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How do we mentally deal with this stuff? If we "care" how they "feel" it can be confusing for us.
 
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mrgoodstuff said:
How do we mentally deal with this stuff? If we "care" how they "feel" it can be confusing for us.
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Apparently we just suffer until not being able to take any more or we lose our minds all together.
Me i go single for years and just bang girls for a few months then trade them in for more.
Thats all they are worth
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I would make fun of her for this behavior, these her a little and threat her like a child (with she is) like there there (pating her head) or "behave or no ice cream tonight and so on"
 
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A book I found useful for understanding the various female behavior patterns and how to manage them was.

Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man

It's cheap and well worth the money.
 
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exhausted said:
So I have learned that my ex gf, unlike any other girl I have ever dated, gets mad at me when she does something ****ty or wrong herself. Instead of feeling remorse or taking responsibility for saying or doing something she instead is mad at me (or anyone else ive noticed - siblings, coworkers) .

Looking back for example, After a great week , on the weekend the gf decides to have an emotional flip out over nothing and ruin the days plans. So monday I wasnt happy go lucky so she became mad at me because I was annoyed she ruined the day. Instead of being nice or sweet she just becomes mad and mean.

Looking back i have 100 examples of this. I even told her she was the only person i met who is mad at you when you are unhappy from her mistreating you.

What the **** kind of person is mad at you and mistreats you because u are not happy that they were ****ty in the first place?

Is this a bipolar trait or sociopathic?
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Could be a cluster b trait such as sociopath or narcissist.

Bottom line she is definitely a selfish biatch and keep her as an ex. Don't go there again
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mrgoodstuff said:
How do we mentally deal with this stuff? If we "care" how they "feel" it can be confusing for us.
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How do you deal with it? You giv le her 2 choices. 1. Grow the f#ck up and act like an adult or GTFO.

If they don't respect your boundaries this behaviour will just get worse
 
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How do you deal with it? You giv le her 2 choices. 1. Grow the f#ck up and act like an adult or GTFO.

If they don't respect your boundaries this behaviour will just get worse
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So many of the "hot" ones physically act extra "dumb" just like a "dumb jock". It's not that they are completely rock headed, it's that they know they can get away with this crap.
 
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mrgoodstuff said:
So many of the "hot" ones physically act extra "dumb" just like a "dumb jock". It's not that they are completely rock headed, it's that they know they can get away with this crap.
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Yes. Too many people want to play games and they will as long as people let them get away with it.
 
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