"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Immature Girl?

GoGetta

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Stupid me fell in love with another stupid girl. I'm 20, shes 18. I never go crazy for any girls, but i absolutely was into this girl. ive been hanging out wit her about every other day for the past two weeks. tonight was a disaster. all she did was call other guys to come to her dorm and drink, and call her friends to see what club everyone is going to. all she wanted to do was drink...i left early cuz i couldnt stand it (i didnt show i was mad or anything)

also, last time i went to a club with her she went up to guys and got them to buy her drinks. she didnt even ask me ( i paid for her cover and bought her a drink), she didnt ask me for any other drinks....

and then she also went up to a dude and started hitting on him..

when she was drunk she also said she loved me and likes me a lot\

now that i wrote this all out - what the hell was i thinking even hanging out with her again after that???? someone comment back, i need 2 hear what u think of the situation
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Chemistry

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Haha... young folk falling in love waaay too easy these days... love is a gradual thing maaan, it takes time to build...

This chick is 18... this is what most 18 year old chicks do... they play the game and enjoy that sh!t... problem with far too many 18 year old guys on here, and 20 year old guys in this case is that they're too quick to get loved up rather than enjoy the game...

As for the specifics of the situation... yea, you acted like a loved up shmuck, lol... don't finance that chick especially when you're getting nothing in return.. drunk talk is nothing... unless you see actions, don't believe what that chick tells you... when she's kissing you, and more appropriately, svcking your d!ck and fvcking you then you know she likes you a lot...

A general rule is that chicks who have to say they like you a lot usually don't
 

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Red flags everywhere...

GoGetta: If I were you, I would keep this girl on the side, don’t pay for ANYTHING for her, just see her as another chick in your life. Then start to get to know other women and when someone special comes along then you can tell the wh0re that you are with now to take her lies and get someone to buy her a few beers in return for sex.

So in short:
1) Get over this girl (emotionally)

2) Meet other women

3) Spend your time and thoughts on other more important and positive things in your life.. Your friends, family, other women, etc.

The Girl you are with now is good for one thing, and that’s sexual stuff... Don’t hold your hopes up for her to be emotionally ready for a committed relationship, cause that’s not gonna happen any time soon. :rolleyes:



Laterz...
 

Lust

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GoGetta said:
Stupid me fell in love with another stupid girl. I'm 20, shes 18. I never go crazy for any girls, but i absolutely was into this girl. ive been hanging out wit her about every other day for the past two weeks. tonight was a disaster. all she did was call other guys to come to her dorm and drink, and call her friends to see what club everyone is going to. all she wanted to do was drink...i left early cuz i couldnt stand it (i didnt show i was mad or anything)

also, last time i went to a club with her she went up to guys and got them to buy her drinks. she didnt even ask me ( i paid for her cover and bought her a drink), she didnt ask me for any other drinks....

and then she also went up to a dude and started hitting on him..

when she was drunk she also said she loved me and likes me a lot\

now that i wrote this all out - what the hell was i thinking even hanging out with her again after that???? someone comment back, i need 2 hear what u think of the situation
Hmm how about...

FORGET ABOUT HER?

She's not worth your time, i can't see how you could be "in love", people nowadays have f*cking retarded judgements, you are not in love, you don't know what love is, you are just acting desperate for her.

Screw her, literally, screw her brains out, that's all she's good for.

And go out and sarge, meet other interesting women, you'll be over her in no time.

And stop thinking so much, especially about her!
 

Zerotwoonenine

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guys, if u fall for some1, thats it.
Even the most mature DJ fall for some1 like that, i am 18, going out with a girl whos 16, fell 4 her but shes immature, not as immature as yours.
Now i think u may want to hang back from her, she has feelings 4 u but u have 2 show her u r a DJ.
The most common mistake that DJs make is screw it up by being a AFC after falling 4 a girl, dont make that mistake.
It has also occured to me that she may hit on another guy in front of u just to test u, show her that u dont care and a DJ.
Most importantly, read the interst level scale tip in tips section, it will help alot.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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the only reason why she is wild is cuz her x-bf was a control freak and didnt let her go out without him
 

Charm&Style

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being in love is one thing...but paying for her sh!t and the getting treated like a chump...thats juss disrespect, man-up, toughen up and give her the boot.
 

Chemistry

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GoGetta said:
the only reason why she is wild is cuz her x-bf was a control freak and didnt let her go out without him
So what? You're gonna tame her?

Some girls are fvcked up... don't waste your time and be a victim to them... find you a nice girl who isn't fvcked up
 
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