imitation learning. IMessenger's and Sosuave

[ethnomethodologist]

Dude's this is so going to get moved since I am horrible at being a written speaker!

Sometimes when speaking with a girl you have nothing to speak about except for what you don't know.

Why not use Sosuave as a cheatsheet? Use it as a method of exercising your DJ abilities. You can speak to a girl with knowledge from this site, and next time you actually meet them in person they can remind you of your actions?

I hadn't gone online and had a chance to read sosuave for months now, just not multi tasking.

Finally went online today to say hi to all my LDR prospects. Been a long time since I spoke with them, so I had so many thoughts going through my head that usually don't when I am in a social environment.

Isolation has turned into a joke now, it's just S(escalating)X all the time. On msn though, I can choose so quickly which way the conversation leads, reason being it is ONLY a conversation, with nothing in between.

To learn concepts that Sosuave teaches, experiment your current knowledge through instant message, practice with it offline. Don't confuse the two

 

[Chillisauce]

Firstly.. you will never get laid over the internet. (batting off to a webcam does not count)

Secondly.. Not only is this rediculously obvious but its been written about before.

thirdly.. If you yourself had actually tried to apply any of the principles yourself instead of being a bloody kbj you would realise so many of the techniques rely on things which are not translated online like body posture, facial expression, eye contact, looks/dress, tonality/pace, situations. You say in your last line not to 'confuse the two' yet you dont see 'practising' as 'exercising your DJ abilities' or 'experimenting', take your own advice.

Fourthly.. stop posting tips, turn off your computer, go outside and approach women and then in a few months come back to us and apologise.

 

[ethnomethodologist]

One you have to be really slow even to think that

Two Where has it been written before? I searched multiple strings and threads.

Three This is a bloody tip, not a method of picking up women. This is a tip for those who argue they cannot talk to a girl. For those who argue it is their voice that screws them up. For those that argue their face or their weight screw up their chances.

Four learn to multi task, I get laid more than three times a week, I have no problem with women you freak.

Ah well, I guess this tip is crap, you actually have to talk to these people before you can start talking to em

 

[Chillisauce]

Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
One you have to be really slow even to think that

Then please enlighten me on the point of this tip.. it’s not practice, it wont get you laid.. what do you honestly think spending so much time chatting online is doing for you?

Where has it been written before? I searched multiple strings and threads.

I have seen the use of MSN in relation to DJ theories discussed several times.. if you had spent less time posting and more time reading maybe you would have too.

Three This is a bloody tip, not a method of picking up women. This is a tip for those who argue they cannot talk to a girl. For those who argue it is their voice that screws them up. For those that argue their face or their weight screw up their chances.

No a tip for people who have those problems would be to FIX those problems.. not to pretend they don’t exist. You never have gotten around to applying theory to the real world have you?

Four learn to multi task, I get laid more than three times a week, I have no problem with women you freak.

I don’t care if you get laid every weekday and twice on Sunday.. this tip is just plain pointless. Personally I think you are stuck in some fantasy land of your own making and see less action than the bottom 10 percent of this board, but it’s the Internet.. who am I to question someone in the land of misinformation.

Ah well, I guess this tip is crap, you actually have to talk to these people before you can start talking to em

It sure is crap.. I’m sorry if it seems I’m coming down too hard on you, but you remind me of a user named Black_Italian, if your bullsh1t isn’t nipped in the bud new users might actually take your KBJ advice.

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Pretend the problem doesn't exist? Spending TOO much time chatting online? The POINT of this tip? Applying theory to the real world?

Man you have got to start respecting different cultures...

Nobody pretends problems don't exist, they know they do, and they just hide from it(lying). You can't spend too much time chatting online, you can only NOT spend enough time in the real world(would you like to know a routine day of mine?). There is no POINT to this tip, it a tip of action, the POINT is to exercise your mind(A concept missing from many of the posts on this site). Applying theory to the real world is exactly that, applying theor y(practice).

I wish you weren't the first to respond to this thread... Would have done me far better to have people come here and give me praise and good karma!

lol, at least I am learning. Thanks for the grand lessons oh grand master poohbah, I shall set forth into the world with the lessons you have taught me...

nah, thanks for playing guru and making me think for myself

 

[Chillisauce]

i dont mind you pulling the wool over your own eyes.. just please stop posting tips, because someday someone might think you know what your talking about due to your obsene post count.

'the POINT is to exercise your mind'

Heres my tip then: go read an advanced level textbook on Organic Chemistry.

'Man you have got to start respecting different cultures...'

What culture have i been disrespecting? I guess i'll stop when you have been off Sosuave for more than 12 hours.

I have said my peice and wont be replying in this thread again, if you wish to continue this discussion PM me.