"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Imigrant needs some help!!

skumface

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Ok, so i just moved to the USA from Europe where im free to go wherever i want. In the states you have to drive everywhere which is a big annoyance. I cant my license for another 6 months so im going to have rely on my parents for transport until then.
I want to know how to go on dates!!! Say i want hook up with a girl at the movies. I have to get my parents to drive me there and pick me up. And what about if the date progresses, for instance she wants me to come home with her. That means i would have to call my parents say im going to girls house (mom wont like) and later ask if they can pick me up from HER house. All this seems awkward and complicated.
What are good ways to convince your parents? How do i get around easier?
Help a DJ out!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Smooth Player 056

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wow.......im 16 i could never imagine me telling my mom "oh hey i know its 12:00 midnight but im not comming home tonight im going over this girls house for the night, dont worry we just want to play checkers"


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08aisaac

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I knw how it is. In Europe, everything is within walking distance, or so I hear.

But I can't drive either, so mom drives me everywhere, or I walk, which I do alot.

Basically I have been informed that the best way to get around is to get a friend to drive you around.

Or something like that. Who knows?

I guess if there is public transportation?

And really it wil be hard to convince your parents, but you could tell them that you are just trying to make friends, and it isn't serious?

I have no idea, as I am also in the same jam.
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
wow.......im 16 i could never imagine me telling my mom "oh hey i know its 12:00 midnight but im not comming home tonight im going over this girls house for the night, dont worry we just want to play checkers"


- Smooth Player 056 -
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HAHAHA I'M 16 AND I CAN TELL MY MOM IM GOING TO **** A GIRL AT 12 AND SHE'LL SAY OKAY BUT THEN AGAIN MY PARENTS ARE ISRAELI AND ISRAELIS R CHILL LIKE THAT. UHM, YEAH KID, EUROPE DEFINTILEY OWNS AMERICA. WHERE IN EUROPE? A GOOD WAY TO GET AROUND IS TO TAKE PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION I DO THAT A LOT, LIKE, IF A GIRL IS TOO FAR, ILL TAKE A BUS THERE/BACK..

CONVINCING YOUR PARENTS WONT WORK THAT WELL IF THEIR ANAL BECAUSE THEIR PROBABLY STUBBORN, UR BEST BET IS TO CONVINCE THEM THAT UR OLD ENOUGH TO MAKE UR OWN DECISIONS -- AND WHERE IN AMERICA DID U MOVE TO?
 

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Originally posted by 08aisaac


I guess if there is public transportation?
YEAH RIGHT
Theres a bus but i know where the stops are and only black guys take it so...
Im getting a car in about 6 months so i guess ill have to just wait for the real deal action until then :(
And by the way, american chicks are way cooler and Euros :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Inquire

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Originally posted by skumface
Ok, so i just moved to the USA from Europe where im free to go wherever i want. In the states you have to drive everywhere which is a big annoyance. I cant my license for another 6 months so im going to have rely on my parents for transport until then.
I want to know how to go on dates!!! Say i want hook up with a girl at the movies. I have to get my parents to drive me there and pick me up. And what about if the date progresses, for instance she wants me to come home with her. That means i would have to call my parents say im going to girls house (mom wont like) and later ask if they can pick me up from HER house. All this seems awkward and complicated.
What are good ways to convince your parents? How do i get around easier?
Help a DJ out!!!
hahahha, okay okayz my bad but tat was funny. here is wut u do. say tat ur "benz" was in a car crash and the insurance company is a *****. let the chick drive u to her place afterwards, say bye and go eat breakfast, tell mommy to pick u up from there. ur mom ask where u were? jsut tell her a truth, "got laid"
 

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Haven't we discussed a thread like this before?? Just meet her there or...get public transportation
 

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Originally posted by benassi
HAHAHA I'M 16 AND I CAN TELL MY MOM IM GOING TO **** A GIRL AT 12 AND SHE'LL SAY OKAY
SAME, my dad bought condoms for me!
 

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Originally posted by whyshy
SAME, my dad bought condoms for me!
DAMN!! you guys r lucky ur parents supply codoms for you and encourage you to mack


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wow.......im 16 i could never imagine me telling my mom "oh hey i know its 12:00 midnight but im not comming home tonight im going over this girls house for the night, dont worry we just want to play checkers"

ROLF!!!ROFLD!DLSALD!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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this is really startin to get annoying. I was about to get freshman number today but i was thinking, "what the hell am i gonna do with her?", so i backed out so i wouldnt seem like some chump that would do anything fun.
Yeah meeting at the mall is great and all but what to when i want action. I dont think girls find dates ending in a public restroom to great.
 

benassi

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actually skumface, you'd be SURPRISED, if a girl wants u that much, hop into a fitting room, i know a lottttttt of ppl who **** in fitting rooms nd all haha
 
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