"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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imagine you're in a 3rd world country

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I'm not gonna try to write up a story behind this, so here's my tip: Have the mindset that you're in a 3rd world country where only the strong survive. The weak don't even get a chance to languish, they die of starvation or are killed. Viewing life as a competition can be motivation to be more sucessful. Fear is what holds all of us back. You're afraid to do what yo know will help. If you refuse to accept compromise, equating it with death, then you'll be more likely to take that first step and wind up somewhere better than the place you're at now.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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meitenesrigas

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Uh, third world countries are not exactly where people are starving to death. Many have Starbucks and Ferrari dealerships with large middle class populations. Your biggest concern would be what mall or cafe had the better wifi connection.

Maybe if you linked this story to The Blue Lagoon or something. The stud in that movie had to use his hands and s--- to catch fish so that Em could have something to eat.
 

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ok now you all are going from one extreme into another
there are countries/places where it is like steve said
but there are also third world countries/places where it is like meitenesrigas said
but it aint black and white everywhere oO there are places where ppl starve because they dont even know what a starbucks is but are not fighting to live
 

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steve12b said:
I'm not gonna try to write up a story behind this, so here's my tip: Have the mindset that you're in a 3rd world country where only the strong survive. The weak don't even get a chance to languish, they die of starvation or are killed. Viewing life as a competition can be motivation to be more sucessful. Fear is what holds all of us back. You're afraid to do what yo know will help. If you refuse to accept compromise, equating it with death, then you'll be more likely to take that first step and wind up somewhere better than the place you're at now.
WTF is your idea of a third world country?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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selfmademob said:
we arent in a 3rd world country you ignorant fagg0t
i bet your e-penis just got longer by writing those lines

its just like the other thread called "its friday night...." he wants to show you that there are ppl out who are fighting blabla and you should be fighting too blabla
 

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yeah right because im new to all of this i cant write things right?
im sorry i dont spend half my lifetime in front of a computer bashing off ppl and calling them fagg0t (with a cool 0 instead of an o!)
 

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Couple of pretty funny responses. Whatever the hell a 3rd world country is officially as, life is a whole hell of a lot harder in one. Here in America anyone can get a free lunch. ****, just panhandling can get you enough $$$ for decent food and shelter in some places. It's too easy and tempting to stop swimming with the flow and sink, because the worst that'll happen is you become unhappy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nygard

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I dont pretend to live in a third world country. Because I do! :p
I have two awesome cars. I live in a big house. The streets are busier than the LA freeways.And honestly, this place isnt ruled "the law of the Jungle". Even though we're in the World top 10 of crime rate, and I dont think a gang is going to force it's way into my house and steal my food and things. Go figure.
 

meitenesrigas

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Nygard said:
I dont pretend to live in a third world country. Because I do! :p
I have two awesome cars. I live in a big house. The streets are busier than the LA freeways.And honestly, this place isnt ruled "the law of the Jungle". Even though we're in the World top 10 of crime rate, and I dont think a gang is going to force it's way into my house and steal my food and things. Go figure.
Exactly my point! Funny how the countries that are supposed to be so poor always make me feel poorer than the supposed wealthy countries. What the idiots who never leaves America fail to understand is that they would probably have a much better life if they were living in one of the "3rd world countries".

Here are pictures from THE classic third world country of Brazil.
http://www.wunderground.com/data/wximagenew/b/boom/0.jpg
http://wikitravel.org/upload/en/thumb/6/6a/Blumenau01.jpg/400px-Blumenau01.jpg

http://youtube.com/watch?v=G0gKdQyZtA8&feature=related
And some video. Wow, I am so scared. I'm wondering if such a large crowd will screw up my chances of getting clean wifi reception. And that blonde girl looks just soooo 3rd world. I am going to need to start lifting some heavy weights to make it in the 3rd world. :box:
 

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thats cheap thinking of 3rd world countries, dude, get better examples or re-read ur wms books, lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJVladdy

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Hey self-made, whats up man.
I dont know you so I'm wondering - all the sh!t that you say here, you say the same in real life to people u see face-to face? Or not?
 
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