"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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imagine you're in a 3rd world country

steve12b

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I'm not gonna try to write up a story behind this, so here's my tip: Have the mindset that you're in a 3rd world country where only the strong survive. The weak don't even get a chance to languish, they die of starvation or are killed. Viewing life as a competition can be motivation to be more sucessful. Fear is what holds all of us back. You're afraid to do what yo know will help. If you refuse to accept compromise, equating it with death, then you'll be more likely to take that first step and wind up somewhere better than the place you're at now.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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meitenesrigas

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Uh, third world countries are not exactly where people are starving to death. Many have Starbucks and Ferrari dealerships with large middle class populations. Your biggest concern would be what mall or cafe had the better wifi connection.

Maybe if you linked this story to The Blue Lagoon or something. The stud in that movie had to use his hands and s--- to catch fish so that Em could have something to eat.
 

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ok now you all are going from one extreme into another
there are countries/places where it is like steve said
but there are also third world countries/places where it is like meitenesrigas said
but it aint black and white everywhere oO there are places where ppl starve because they dont even know what a starbucks is but are not fighting to live
 

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steve12b said:
I'm not gonna try to write up a story behind this, so here's my tip: Have the mindset that you're in a 3rd world country where only the strong survive. The weak don't even get a chance to languish, they die of starvation or are killed. Viewing life as a competition can be motivation to be more sucessful. Fear is what holds all of us back. You're afraid to do what yo know will help. If you refuse to accept compromise, equating it with death, then you'll be more likely to take that first step and wind up somewhere better than the place you're at now.
WTF is your idea of a third world country?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Enryu

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selfmademob said:
we arent in a 3rd world country you ignorant fagg0t
i bet your e-penis just got longer by writing those lines

its just like the other thread called "its friday night...." he wants to show you that there are ppl out who are fighting blabla and you should be fighting too blabla
 

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yeah right because im new to all of this i cant write things right?
im sorry i dont spend half my lifetime in front of a computer bashing off ppl and calling them fagg0t (with a cool 0 instead of an o!)
 

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Couple of pretty funny responses. Whatever the hell a 3rd world country is officially as, life is a whole hell of a lot harder in one. Here in America anyone can get a free lunch. ****, just panhandling can get you enough $$$ for decent food and shelter in some places. It's too easy and tempting to stop swimming with the flow and sink, because the worst that'll happen is you become unhappy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nygard

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I dont pretend to live in a third world country. Because I do! :p
I have two awesome cars. I live in a big house. The streets are busier than the LA freeways.And honestly, this place isnt ruled "the law of the Jungle". Even though we're in the World top 10 of crime rate, and I dont think a gang is going to force it's way into my house and steal my food and things. Go figure.
 

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Nygard said:
I dont pretend to live in a third world country. Because I do! :p
I have two awesome cars. I live in a big house. The streets are busier than the LA freeways.And honestly, this place isnt ruled "the law of the Jungle". Even though we're in the World top 10 of crime rate, and I dont think a gang is going to force it's way into my house and steal my food and things. Go figure.
Exactly my point! Funny how the countries that are supposed to be so poor always make me feel poorer than the supposed wealthy countries. What the idiots who never leaves America fail to understand is that they would probably have a much better life if they were living in one of the "3rd world countries".

Here are pictures from THE classic third world country of Brazil.
http://www.wunderground.com/data/wximagenew/b/boom/0.jpg
http://wikitravel.org/upload/en/thumb/6/6a/Blumenau01.jpg/400px-Blumenau01.jpg

http://youtube.com/watch?v=G0gKdQyZtA8&feature=related
And some video. Wow, I am so scared. I'm wondering if such a large crowd will screw up my chances of getting clean wifi reception. And that blonde girl looks just soooo 3rd world. I am going to need to start lifting some heavy weights to make it in the 3rd world. :box:
 

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thats cheap thinking of 3rd world countries, dude, get better examples or re-read ur wms books, lol
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJVladdy

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Hey self-made, whats up man.
I dont know you so I'm wondering - all the sh!t that you say here, you say the same in real life to people u see face-to face? Or not?
 
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