"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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kiLLaBee

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So you are walking down the street everyday, you see countless number of people and everyone looks the some, ok some people look just discusting and you think what is happening to this world?
Today just by looking guys at my collage i felt ashamed for them, it hurts me when i see someone who don’t respect himself at all and it’s like i can feel their pain. Well never mind that now, let’s return on street where is all the action...

So in that river of uninteresting people, still there are few people who catch your attention for few sec longer then they need to. Probably you seen at least one person like that today, and have you ever asked yourself
Why do i do that?

I mean that people aren’t so good looking it’s just something about them, and they leave really good first impression on you for some reason. You sort them in your head with cool people you know and rest of successful people. And just by few sec of looking at them??
That is power of the image.

Its really powerful feeling, i am from Zagreb witch is Capital town here in Croatia and when i visit friend at another town i notice the difference. I dress up when i go out and since people in this smaller town have less choice they all look boring. Just one look at me people get feeling like its natural for guy like that to get all girls, and it would be fun to be around me. All that you get without saying one word, and i must say it feels AWESOME. When i was with few friends visiting smaller town, people treated us like kings and girls worshiped us.

I still cant get out of my head when i was returning from car with girl i picked up, outside of club there were 2 girl-friends from my girl, and they were so excited and happy, screaming how one of them kiss # my friend. Like omg he choose me i am so happy.
I was like hmmmm why didn’t i get her? Or maybe bouth of them ? hmmm :)
Besides that i was kind of shocked.....we just came there and didn’t do anything and things like this happen.

It’s like in movie Gone with the Wind, or any other movie where one cool guy and best girl hook up, its so obvious and natural process.
Or when you see best girl in club and while you walk you see some awesome guy and you know its natural selection, unless guy is blind and stupid.

And yea about that experience in front of club, well people just connect in their head that things about us and it’s about image we represent, and guess what we really didn’t expect it. In top clubs in our town we are just normal guys, but we know we are more and people notice that trough spending time with us, but critical word is TIME. What if your first image is mind-blowing and you are just too awsome, woudnt that be nice?

Well i don’t know for you guys, but in my town atm there are lot of discounts and i reservered one girl and guy who got eye for wicked clothes and rest of small things that show so much.
How do you know you are on right track?
Well all girls who look easy, and you needed before to talk to them to figure out that they are easy. Now they will throw massive signals at you grab and start to dance with you or throw themself at you,aproach you first....
How do i know that?

Because i started to experience it more and more and i am average well little more then that, but before i couldn’t understand one guy who got huge attention from this kind of girls. Well example is
We were seargin at club and it was really good night for us, he done nothing but still some girls took his shirt off and start licking him. When i talked to him why he didn’t pull girl and **** her, he answered he got sick of that girls. And i now know the feeling he had, only thing that goes trough my head is.......
I can do better then this.

One thing, i was talking about guys and clothes with my ex some time ago, while walking trough mall. In conversation we touched topic how she meet lot of intresting people, but treats herself really good and she wants somebody who is full package, and that is rare. If you can get that little effort you get much better position where you pick what you want, lot of easy girls for countless ons or multiple mltr-s or whatever, and you get it much easier.

Try to see it like this you invested all this practice to get over fear and rejection you found yourself, you know what you want, so you invested time for this, then it isnt so hard to rap it up with nice cover paper so they wonder what’s inside....

That’s all from me, all best to you
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When the girls were taking the guy's shirt off -- was this, perchance, at the Hole in One on Vlaska Street?

PM me; I'll be back in Zagreb before the year's out.
 

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When the girls were taking the guy's shirt off -- was this, perchance, at the Hole in One on Vlaska Street?

PM me; I'll be back in Zagreb before the year's out.


No it happend at one club at lake Jarun, club pirana :)
 

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I'm taking notes. I'll check that place out. Thanks!

(And THAT, peeps, is how it is done.)

FWIW, I got spectacularly laid by a girl I met at the Hole in One. The women in there were BEAUTIFUL. I can't wait to get back to Zagreb.
 

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lot of people forget about the "self impovement". they got the wraping paper (clothes, cars, confidence....) but when you open it up, there is notting. no game at all. No manhood.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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