"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Im willing to help you (anything and everything you need)

IRONMAN22

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 17, 2005
Messages
86
Reaction score
0
Age
37
directed to anyone thats lost

Okay, here I will tell you a little bit about me, I used to have some of the same problems as you starting out in my game, you probably feel ugly, like every girl is gonna reject you, but heres a definet plus about you, bud you just dont give up, and if you keep up an attitude like that your bound to get somewhere, see where Im comin from? From your experiences now,(and I was told this by a pal of mine), if you manage to keep trying and dont give up, you will probably be one of the biggest playerz around... ALSO... forget that DJ Bible or whatever, once youve got what I posted below completely figured out, you will eventually be able to figure out your own style of mackin

NOW..... heres some info Ive told you before, but Ive focused this stuff more on you (what you probably need to hear)
#1- girls are just human beings like me and you, NOTHING ELSE
#2- RELAX
#3- You need something, anything to boost your confidence, I suggest a little TOO $HORT music, if you dont know about him look it up, easily my favorite, this guy knows the game
... also, how do you feel you look? work on your appearance, obviously I dont know what you look like, but if you feel you need to alter something, do it.
#4- after youve done what I said on top.... take a deep breath and relax haha ... get some good clothes, I recommend some sensual hollister, or abercrombie and fitch type stuff, gel your hair too, I hear most gals think thats hott lol
#5- RELAX!- NOW, 1st complete what I told you to do above.... let these broads come to you, if you realize a broad glancing at you, simple, shes yours, if shes up to your standard, just say hi, or whats up, RELAX, tell her what you think of her, if you wanna get to know her better tell her, and then get to know this broad better, ask questions, be bold and street smart.

remember you will get rejected!... Im not afraid to admit that I have, I have no beautiful girls right now, because I just lost 'em tonight haha, but there was a time when I was IN LOVE WITH this girl, who wasnt even that cute,but I loved this girl, and she broke my heart, so just RELAX... please do what I have told you to do and you will be succesful, if you have questions come to me, need some reassurance? come to me, Ill be your pal and wingman


SOMETHING MY OLD MAN JUST NOW TAUGHT ME
So, me and the old man were sitting outside tonight, I told him that I had to talk to him in private, well, b/c I screwed it up with mah gal (Hott girl 10.0 and 19 yrs), NOW, if ya'll are wondering where I get my game, its from my pops and of coarse the one and only Dommega ... but anyway it seems that shed lost interest in me and decided to ignore me, after having this long talk with the old man we came up with one answer... this should help alotta you aspiring playerz...
well here it is..
#1. this girl was obviously physically attracted to me from the start.
#2. I was terribly SELF ABSORBED (ALSO YOU PAL) when speaking with her
#3. obviously a turn off I didnt realize that

solution- try letting some focus off of yourself altogether and ask this girl some questions, to become close, whats that **** called again? rapport. break that broad IN ... get her to talk about herself, ask questions so you both feel at ease, I fuond my mistake, but I was ignorant before not knowing how much of an idiot I was being, YES, SHE WAS PHYSICALLY (SEXUALLY) attracted and thats how I got her, this is one of the reasons I greatly recommend working on your looks.


as for this broad, I will try callin her tommorow and apologizing and ****, but if I dont get a call back I aint sweatin' it, one mistake and there are plenty more Smokin Hott broads out there although it hurts to lose one thats 3 yrs older than me and very attractive

thanks Pops love you
NOMOREACF? ARE YOU TIRED OF BEING A LOSER? CHANGE THAT NOW!
now... NOMOREAFC, your gonna have to be willing to change and not give up, I can tell that youd be the type that might be willing to make a move but you also probably think that youll have to blow the broad away (growing nerves) OMG OMG DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY, tell me if Im wrong as for your looks, Id just say let just a lil bit more hair grow out on top and trim the goatee a lil, I have a broad line that doesnt go past either side of my lips myself, NOW, man dont be scared to come to me for any questions, or assurance at all
:cheer:;)
 
Last edited:

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

arutha

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 30, 2005
Messages
386
Reaction score
3
Age
39
Location
Australia
as for this broad, I will try callin her tommorow and apologizing and ****,
...
although it hurts to lose one thats 3 yrs older than me and very attractive
I think you just contradicted your topic title there... :rolleyes:
 

IRONMAN22

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 17, 2005
Messages
86
Reaction score
0
Age
37
ha... good one, but Im just a lil bit shaken you know what I mean?
 

arutha

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 30, 2005
Messages
386
Reaction score
3
Age
39
Location
Australia
Yeah I do.. It sucks, and its worse that its so hard to ignore even though you know you should.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

BrotherAP

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2005
Messages
722
Reaction score
5
Age
45
Location
Earth
IRONMAN I'd consider editing NOMOREAFC's name out of your title, as the mods really crack down on threads that seem to directed towards one person. Leave the body of the post just how it is, and title it "some tips for someone who needs a boost" or "somewhere to start if your lost" and then PM nomoreafc so that he'll read it
 

gimmeyofonenumba

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 24, 2005
Messages
520
Reaction score
2
Location
GA
Im glad this was posted. Ive been on a real bad streak lately. Made 3 approaches last week and i felt damn good, but just like everything has its highs it has its lows as well, this week has been ass ugly terrible, everywhere ive been going ive been feeling kinda shakey and not been myself.

I havent made an approach yet this week, IAM gonna make one later today. Anyways, heres my question, and i feel so afc all over again for asking this. There is a chick that i had no interest in whatsoever in my class, but lately i've felt something for her physically, I've talked to her a few times, all went well just talked to her about class and crap. Thing is, she is wierd man she's really direct, from point a to point b, she moves really quickly talks with alot of confidence and is always on topic, never seems to joke, and any rapport or talking you do one day seems to be blown the next. This chick is the complete opposite of me, but i wanna !@#$ her! i dont care about a relationship. I even think she's been trying to lead me on, by bending over to pickup something in a real awkward way, but when i come close to her she gets all shaken up and wont give me eye contact(except one time i was talkin to the teacher i look up and hb is staring me in the eyes). She sits at the other end of the room, and this thought of her has been killing me and my game. I need to get her in bed or out of my mind, how should i approach this? honestly, i dont even wanna take her to a movie or anything. I need to get this overwith by friday. Help me here.
 

IRONMAN22

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 17, 2005
Messages
86
Reaction score
0
Age
37
Ill help you out, but 1st I have to have my question answered, the one I posted to the master don juans, then Ill be able to tell you what you need to know, just remember, it definetly possible.


p.s. take a look at that post I think that could really help anyone with the same type of problem I have, I have alot of something else (physical appearance, extremely bold moves) and thats why women are attracted, but I suck at being able to keep any broad, I think you need a mixture of both my advice and the **** these master don juans will post.
 

NoMoreAFC

Banned
Joined
Aug 7, 2004
Messages
129
Reaction score
0
Age
50
Djs and Iron Man 22 in particular

http://www.acores.net/canalacores/fotos/10972_1_1121889541.jpg

http://www.acores.net/canalacores/fotos/10972_1_1121889757.jpg

i changed my style a bit, ditched the goatee and dressed in a black blazer black tshirt, jeans and black shoes


i think i need looking at my photo to smile more, a confident smile and to gain more muscle and also a good diet. all that is in my control. as for the hair i have a bit of receding hair so letting it grow on top will make it really thick and dry like straw and i think a short hair cut would help.

one thing i notice and u ask why i wear shades when taking most of my pics, cuz the shades gimme more confidence, its like i can see everyone and no one sees me, so i act like i dont give a ****... strange but that's what's happening, it's been like this for a long time.

thanks for all your help guys, you've been amazing
 

IRONMAN22

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 17, 2005
Messages
86
Reaction score
0
Age
37
Its no problem

I want to see you succeed, hell we can all use a good confidence boost, after all that I posted for all of you, I still need work on my own skill, and I think everyone should realize that building rapport,(breaking that broad down, causing both of you to feel at ease with eachother),is a great thing to learn too, although looks can greatly come in help to any situation ..being ****y is ok, IN SUBTLE doses.

nice job NOMOREAFC Im diggin the new style man, dont you give up were all here for you
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Top