"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm very cynical now and full of hate.

nonameok

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I really expected harsher comments based on my original post. This site surprised me with mature, rational comments. I need to take women off my mind. I need to forget about having a girlfriend or getting laid. I need to refocus and get my emotions in check and just become the friendly, great to be around guy because I want to be that guy and not because I expect anything in return. This thread has also awoken me to the fact women is wooed by their emotions. Some like riches and status, but if you connect on an emotional level, you will win.

Thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This site is full of pussies (not everyone, but still too many)
That's why they're being nice to a lowlife like you.
 

DonJuan11

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nonameok said:
I really expected harsher comments based on my original post. This site surprised me with mature, rational comments. I need to take women off my mind. I need to forget about having a girlfriend or getting laid. I need to refocus and get my emotions in check and just become the friendly, great to be around guy because I want to be that guy and not because I expect anything in return. This thread has also awoken me to the fact women is wooed by their emotions. Some like riches and status, but if you connect on an emotional level, you will win.

Thanks.
Nice, you don't seem as bitter or angry here. Seems like you are open to improving things.

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Bond: Do you expect me to talk?
Goldfinger: No Mr. Bond, I expect you to die!
 
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