I'm very confused

[Jaune Cena]

Hello everyone. I am a freshman in high school. There is something that I am confused about that started about a year and a half ago. So I was In 7th grade at the end of the year. We were on a field trip and a bunch of the boys in my grade were teasing this girl. I wasn't and when she yelled at them she told me I was really nice. This was weird because I hadn't talked to her for like 5 years before then because she had moved away and I saw her so little when she got back I didn't realize she even went to school there. So I liked a different girl then though. About a month into 8th grade the girl I liked started dating someone so I figured "ah what the heck" and I liked the girl who said I was really nice then. A few months went by and I decided to send her a flower for valentines day. She didn't know it was me who sent it to her. Every time someone was being a jerk to me, she got really mad at them. One day my brother (who had no idea I liked this girl) told me he knew where one of my friends was. He was at the house of a 7th grader who had the same first name she did and I though it was her until the end of September and I though my friend liked her. So now in 9th grade halfway through September, we were after school to play for band at a football game. I noticed he had flowers and I though he was going to ask her to homecoming. I tried to ask him who he was asking but this idiot (nicest description I have of him) who used to be my friend wouldn't let me ask him because he heard me before my friend did. My fear got worse when she got to the game with some of her friends and he frantically signaled towards them when we were playing music. After we were done I got the chance to talk to him alone and I asked him who he was going to ask and told him I was going to ask someone but I wanted to make sure we were not going to ask the same person. He was going to ask some girl he had a crush on since 4th grade and asked me who I was going to ask so I told him. I then figured that she would find out I liked her soon at this point so I asked her to homecoming and told her I sent her the flower. She thought it was really nice and said she would have gone with me but she didn't have a dress and she didn't like going to dances. So I though she liked me so a few weeks later I asked if she wanted to watch the football game with me and all she said was sorry. Then at the end of October she blocked me on Instagram and I hadn't even done anything wrong to her. Now I have not spoken a word to her since then nor had she tried to talk to me. What's worse is now I think she likes one of the people she yelled at for being mean to me. Please help me figure this out.

 

[Dan Bautista]

Though difficult to get a grasp on, from your words, the answer is crystal-clear. Cut to the chase — you have a crush on a girl, you express your interest, she doesn't reciprocate to you, but does to someone else.

You asked her out twice and she rejected you both times. Adding to that, the block from her social media is an obvious indication of non-existing interest levels. If she had even little interest in you, she would not have blocked you from Instagram (because girls love seeing what you are up to and social media is a great way to do so, if they are interested, that is).

The only thing you can do now is move on. You've expressed your interest, not once, but twice, and she rejected you each time. She is not worth investing your time into.