"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm ugly ! I've tried changing my clothes and attitude, nothing works!

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8th.

And actually I don't want to post my picture up on here I'm too embarassed about it. Sorry.

I've been telling myself that I messed up in the beginning of the year and that's why I'm in this horrible shape. I'm just going to go through this year with my head down and do good in the beginning of next year, 9th grade, with my social skills, etc. How are you supposed to act on the first day of high school? Talkative and ****y? Quiet?

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I was considered ugly when I was 16. Now Im considered hot. I had a geeky hair cut, and wore geeky clothes. Give it a few years. Keep your head up. I got nothing in high school, and last year I dumped a rich hb9 ex-playboy playmate!

If there are two identical twins, and one of them walks head held high, and has a great attitude about himself, chicks will think hes hot, while they think his brother, who walks slouched and closed off, and low self esteem, is a loser. In all reality, they look exactly the same.

I know you're 16, and it may take you a few years to realize what this means, but try to get yourself in a great mindset right now.
Besides, I know some ugly motherfvckers who get laid all the time. I wish I had this site when I was 16, you're lucky! Dont EVER walk with your head held low!
 
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Bro...you're 16 years old....When i was 16 i had major insecurities. I'd seriously wet myself if I had to go upto a girl and talk to her... I was your typical AFC...

Today i'm 25, I'm an exotic entertainer, so I make my living on my looks/bod...my girlfriend is a model, I get called "hot" and stuff all the time... I'm a 9.5 on hotornot.com... Your reality is what you make it. Never stop improving yourself...

Keep working HARD to better yourself...its a long road sometimes, but man is the journey ever worth it! Hit the gym hard, work hard in other areas of your life that are important to you. Do it for yourself, so you're happier... not to get girls.
 
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DamHE said:
mrRuckus what are you saying? That I should wait for 5 years until I'm in college or I should start doing something now?
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he pretty clearly said start now, though it may not pay off til later.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OH BABY!




I don't know what to tell you dude, without seeing the pic, if you are ugly, start working hard to get rich so you can buy *****. Otherwise just keep trying, develop the right attitude, become clean and eventually you'll get something
 
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