"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm ugly ! I've tried changing my clothes and attitude, nothing works!

DamHE

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8th.

And actually I don't want to post my picture up on here I'm too embarassed about it. Sorry.

I've been telling myself that I messed up in the beginning of the year and that's why I'm in this horrible shape. I'm just going to go through this year with my head down and do good in the beginning of next year, 9th grade, with my social skills, etc. How are you supposed to act on the first day of high school? Talkative and ****y? Quiet?

Thanks..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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woods

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I was considered ugly when I was 16. Now Im considered hot. I had a geeky hair cut, and wore geeky clothes. Give it a few years. Keep your head up. I got nothing in high school, and last year I dumped a rich hb9 ex-playboy playmate!

If there are two identical twins, and one of them walks head held high, and has a great attitude about himself, chicks will think hes hot, while they think his brother, who walks slouched and closed off, and low self esteem, is a loser. In all reality, they look exactly the same.

I know you're 16, and it may take you a few years to realize what this means, but try to get yourself in a great mindset right now.
Besides, I know some ugly motherfvckers who get laid all the time. I wish I had this site when I was 16, you're lucky! Dont EVER walk with your head held low!
 

Fuglydude

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Bro...you're 16 years old....When i was 16 i had major insecurities. I'd seriously wet myself if I had to go upto a girl and talk to her... I was your typical AFC...

Today i'm 25, I'm an exotic entertainer, so I make my living on my looks/bod...my girlfriend is a model, I get called "hot" and stuff all the time... I'm a 9.5 on hotornot.com... Your reality is what you make it. Never stop improving yourself...

Keep working HARD to better yourself...its a long road sometimes, but man is the journey ever worth it! Hit the gym hard, work hard in other areas of your life that are important to you. Do it for yourself, so you're happier... not to get girls.
 

Throttle

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DamHE said:
mrRuckus what are you saying? That I should wait for 5 years until I'm in college or I should start doing something now?
he pretty clearly said start now, though it may not pay off til later.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OH BABY!




I don't know what to tell you dude, without seeing the pic, if you are ugly, start working hard to get rich so you can buy *****. Otherwise just keep trying, develop the right attitude, become clean and eventually you'll get something
 
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