"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm trying to call this chick...

AlexTheGreat

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and her answering machine takes the call after the first ring ...

WTF do I do now ? I don't wanna let a message, already left one telling her to call me back 2 weeks ago, she didn't. But, she didn't act weird at all, so I'm betting she didn't even hear the message (as in, she's still acting interested and all).

But, how can I call her if her answering machine picks it up and she doesn't listen to it ? :rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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first off you need to block your number, and not leave a message. After a few calls you need to unblock your number and leave a message to the effect of " hey *name here this is *your name sorry i missed you call me back at *insert number"
 

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*67 to block it if you dont have it perma blocked and if you do have it perma blocked *82 to un block it.

Pretty much you can call her multiple times and not sound desperate (not right after another wait a few hours in between). Its just liket hsi say u call her 3 times and u miss her every time her phone is going to say "3 missed calls" and when she looks at the numbers is going to say " Private caller , Private caller , Your name with a message"

:D


Edit also i was never really into this but if her phone goes to message really fast u could text message her and after a few texts between you to you could ahve her call you.
 

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Originally posted by AlexisonFire25
*67 to block it if you dont have it perma blocked and if you do have it perma blocked *82 to un block it.

Pretty much you can call her multiple times and not sound desperate (not right after another wait a few hours in between). Its just liket hsi say u call her 3 times and u miss her every time her phone is going to say "3 missed calls" and when she looks at the numbers is going to say " Private caller , Private caller , Your name with a message"

:D


Edit also i was never really into this but if her phone goes to message really fast u could text message her and after a few texts between you to you could ahve her call you.
doesn't work ... I'm in canada, any ideas ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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im in canada too man, and it actually does work, i've done it before
 
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