"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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im trying an experiment

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i here people saying how you should act through body language and eye contact, im gonna try this when going out

On the first occasion when i go out, im gonna avoid every woman, not looking at her at all, and trying to keep away from them, but mainly not looking in there direction also, on occasions ill have my arms in my pocket, ill try also to walk normall.


then on another day, im gonna flirt with every woman, make strong eye contact, long eye contact, and get close to them while walking..im gonna keep my head high and walk confidently


to makwe it fair, on both occasions because i think looks matter alot im gonna wear my best clothes and look my best, ill update date you in a couple of days with the results i come with, p.s. on both occasions i would walk in the same place to make it fair, i doubt ill encounter the same people but ill give responces from different woman, and different cultures i met...p.s., i got a friend who will sit down and analyse to show how i felt and what happened, if the woman looked at me while like on the first occasion i avoided them...........i think itll be educational, and a good experience on us all, ill reveal what i think is the best way, for body language..from my experiment
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i tried the second methos today, thats me staring at woman, making eye contact looking long periods, it defenitly works i couldnt believe it...nearly every woman were flirting with me asian etc

but heres the worst part, never flirt with every woman, i got conned to, basically i saw a pritty mature woman, we flirted as we walked past, we got that moment, sudenly she said wait, i thought she was gonna make a move, well every woman was smiling at me, i had so much success....but my day just messed up, she said have you got change for 5 dollars, i got it out, she took it and ran, now ovously i needed the money to get home so i chased her, here where she conned me, she started shouting this mans trying to rape me, etc, then basically i was stuck, so i just left and walked 2 miles home damn, i mean thats a long way, it took me so long, im so tired now

but ultimatly im glad, i wore my best clothes, i made eye contact even longer than normall, and you get smiles, and touching, and that special feeling, even hot woman were flirting with me, all in all good stradgedy accept for the mature woman, well she was i guess 5/10 anyway but i did say ill flirt with all the woman....so it was good, really enjoying, i felt so special, lol, to be truthfull because also asian girls were flirting with me, and normally they ignore me, so its like one of the first time i got lots of asian girls flirting with me..their the best, i think from all the girls i liked them the best, normally their harder to get

tmrw ill try the avoiding tactic, ill post the results, who knows it might not be the tactic, we will find out...........
 

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learningguy said:
she said have you got change for 5 dollars, i got it out, she took it and ran, now ovously i needed the money to get home so i chased her, here where she conned me, she started shouting this mans trying to rape me, etc, then basically i was stuck, so i just left and walked 2 miles home damn
LOL!

Now that's a great story. :yes:


Now you see the truth in the DJ Bible. Most of the guidelines are spot on, I find.
 

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It depends on the venue.

I recently went to a venue where the women were so mature that all you had to do was wink at them and they'd come over and talk to you. I dunno...it depends...I had a girl recently come up to me, pull my tie, and teach me how to salsa dance with her. All I did was smile at her from accross the room. And I was wearing a suit and tie, maybe that has something to do with it.
 

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learningguy said:
but heres the worst part, never flirt with every woman, i got conned to, basically i saw a pritty mature woman, we flirted as we walked past, we got that moment, sudenly she said wait, i thought she was gonna make a move, well every woman was smiling at me, i had so much success....but my day just messed up, she said have you got change for 5 dollars, i got it out, she took it and ran, now ovously i needed the money to get home so i chased her, here where she conned me, she started shouting this mans trying to rape me, etc, then basically i was stuck, so i just left and walked 2 miles home damn, i mean thats a long way, it took me so long, im so tired now

wait... what? wtf thats a fvcked up story. That sucks bro... so weird. Nothing even close to this ever happened to me... weird.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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actually thats exactly what i was wearing a long coat, and shirt etc..well it just happened yesterday to me...the areas my university so i see all different sorts of people,from different backgrounds etc, today am gonna avoid them, see what happens
 

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the results

i have to admit today i went out avoiding woman, guess whaty i didnt even attract many just 3 flirted with me, most of them never even looked my way..........i was looking the same, everything same, goes to show what a little difference can make some things i found out:

1) if you are walking past and girl going opposite direction, to get her interested you need to make eye contact, also when your walking its better if you make it longer than normal the eye contact cause you get that special feeling and she smiles too
2) if sitting down ovously not as much but when passing alot of eye contact
3) with really hot top notch woman i realised because all the men are druling over her, i notice thats thge only time avoiding works, cause so many men look at her, if you avoid she chooses you, your different
4) when walking i realised dont walk to showing off, and not too much like a robot, you need to get the balance right, you need to be cool, always keep your head high, shoulders wide but naturally
5) when you walk never move out of the way, even if the womans walking straight at you, dont move walk straight, as a result sometimes they touch your arm softly, sometimes fast, but you get that moment, feeling when you feel her soft body
6) i realised with guys who have girlfriend if sitting on bus and the guys sitting next to you, get up and stop then make him get up and do the work, even on train whatever make other people move out the way, its cool, his girlfriend smiled at me as a result and we got that moment of eye contact

most importantly the first test i did, definetly by far was the best, thats keeping lots of eye contact, it was so enjoyable but, i mean by all means be carefull with this one, there are some woman devous, they may get attracted but can test you and con you........but if you wanna have fun and flirt, i think its even better than having a relationship because
1) no fear rejection, if you mess up nothing will happen
2) you can be with anywoman and choose, touch her while walking, bumping, its the best experience when you make eye contact
3) you dont face the evil side of woman, her naging etc

i think the first technique is perfect for guys like me, who were heart broken after a failure relationship now after trying that technique, believe me, ive never been so happy, it really works, my eyes are opened, i never believed all this,

i thought reading poetry and literature was the way to attract woman........how wrong i was

one thing to know, on both occasions i wore the same clothes, looked the same, but with the first technique i got like so much attention, from all cultures etc, which was the best....to conclude from all the girls i liked flirting with asian woman the best, they have that extra spark, they dont make it as obvous, but i had so much fun, im so happy, thanks sosoauve, great work keep it up, and ill keep flirting and trying the first technique until i feel im ready for another relationship.
 
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