“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Is what i'm hearing. I'm top dog in my media class and everyone wants a bit of me. Already got with one of the girls and im sure i'll get with another by the end of the year.

So why is it when I have no problem with them I still can't seem to bring myself to speak to a cute girl i've seen round college. I know that once I do it'll be a doozy but fear is holding me back as always which is weird because with the girls in my class it seems fine.

My insecurity about being a virgin has held me back before (don't say its cool/respectable to be a virgin cos really to me it isnt and considering I seem to be the ladies man of the class somehow it makes me more insecure if they think I have by now cos i havent) and maybe this is stopping me but i cant get over it still.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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a virgin? hell, i would use that as my opener. definately won't be a turn-off for women unless you are an obvious virgin(fat, acne ridden, poorly dressed, smelly, social retard etc.)

i lost my v-card at a relatively early age(13), and feel in a lot of ways it hindered my development with women. it made me complacent, and while all my friends were out trying to get laid, i was like "pshh, i already got laid, i don't need to be chasing around women". over a decade and a bad relationship or two later, here i am, trying to figure out how to get laid while all my friends who started figuring it out in high school are doing just fine with the ladies(ok, not all, but some)

don't let a simple detail like virginity hinder your progress, if anything, use it as a motivating force. c'mon, next time you see this girl let HER know that you're the "top dog", cuz WE don't give a ****, we're all top dogs here
 
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same here age 13 lol... oh the start of many interesting times, yeah basically I didn't develop quite the same as others my age either but that's why a monsterous 36 or 38 messed with I can't even keep record. and DonS is right by the 3rd time it's just fun and I don't know about you but I feel like a beast after I smash it so hard and fast for 20 minutes the ***** complains she can't move the next morning lol... just move in for the kill bro, and don't be nervous when you have the shot just feel the spot and put it in and if you're really that nervous of being a virgin which appears to be tell her you've got problems getting hard and stay calm so she will give you head... hahaha my first time I came in like 9 seconds. lol.
 
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TheWayOfAllFlesh said:
Is what i'm hearing. I'm top dog in my media class and everyone wants a bit of me. Already got with one of the girls and im sure i'll get with another by the end of the year.

So why is it when I have no problem with them I still can't seem to bring myself to speak to a cute girl i've seen round college. I know that once I do it'll be a doozy but fear is holding me back as always which is weird because with the girls in my class it seems fine.

My insecurity about being a virgin has held me back before (don't say its cool/respectable to be a virgin cos really to me it isnt and considering I seem to be the ladies man of the class somehow it makes me more insecure if they think I have by now cos i havent) and maybe this is stopping me but i cant get over it still.
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Just pick the sluttiest girl you can find and tell her your a virgin...you will be done with that little problem in no time. Heck, she may even teach you all about things you didn't know. Bottom line, grow balls and nail every one of the girls that eyeing you since you are "top dog."
 
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Cry me a fking river. Oh, you talk a big game: "I'm the top tog, I got with one girl, and another is on the way." And then in the next breath you say you are afraid to talk to girls because you are an insecure virgin.

Brother, sex isn't that big of a deal. Your mind has blown it WAY out of proportion. Every man in the history of our world was a virgin at some point. The is a part of every man's development. This is NOT anything unusual or something to freak out about. ALL 4 BILLION MEN ON THIS PLANET HAVE BEEN VIRGINS.

This is no big deal to women. They don't care. You think they are all sex experts? LOL! Women are very attracted to virgins. And they want to be the one to pop your cherry.

Stop taking shiit so seriously; life is FUN and EXCITING! This insecurity is giving you a weird vibe that chicks can sense. Get over it! I know you don't have the balls, but you should tell your best female friend. Diffuse all it's power over you. Tell the world: "I am a virgin. I want to have sex, but it just hasn't happened yet." There, look, the women didn't run away screaming; instead, they are suddenly very attracted to this ultra-confident male who isn't your typical insecure blowhard who makes up stories about all the chicks he's nailed.

No lie, the first time will be awkward. The second a lot better. By the 5th time you'll be smacking that ass and shooting loads on her back.

This is the natural part of every man's journey. Stop stressing and enjoy it!

I order you to have the biggest smile on your face and go say hi to women; the rest will take care of itself. You are a confident man who's got a great future and women are lucky to have a chance with you. Stop hating on yourself!
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TERRYFYING POST!! I wish there were a lot more like this one. The positivity is so attractive... Made me goose bumps! People should be more and more positive, postive atitude does indeed kick ass AND makes a difference. being able to proudly tell the world something so "oh my god", with a hell of a inspiration to back it up, it would be AWSOME, just makes me inspired of thinking about it.

I think that the more crazy stuff like this are done, the more we grow. Cmon, in a while you'll think about it and feel great! What's there to loose really?! Remember that we're alone when we do courage, but as soon as we're done, the WHOLE WORLD wants to join us. Interresting! :yes: Getting out the comfort zone (especially with a joking-I-Don't-Care atitude) is a GREAT (and funny!) thing and you should ALWAYS do it, the benefits are too much... I have to remind myself to do it WAY more often!
 
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