"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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im too scared to talk or hang out and have a life

we all eat food

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Social anxiety Disorder

my sister says i have social anxiety disordert and that i need counseling, just cause i dont have a social life. Is she right or something
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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frisco

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join a club,sport,go to church if ur religous
and whats t be scared off sounds like, no offence but it couldnt possibly get worse than doing nothing for 5 years so if you talk to someone and ask to hang out and they say no its not like its the end of the world
 
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immrtlwun

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seriously dude, get out and do something. go to the mall and talk to someone and you'll have done more in one day than you have in the past five years. it has to start somewhere.
 

cablecow15

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take a chance im like that and it got me no where
i thought no girl would like some one like me
but to my supprise you just need to give it a
try sitting there gets you know where

you do have friends right ask if they know singlr chicks
they may know more than you think
 
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