"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm too old for you

Samanosuke

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How do you guys respond to that, I got that today and had no idea how to respond to it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jay Jay

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I've never had "I'm too "old."

I've had plenty of "YOU"RE too old."

But they are both **** tests to see if you've got the goods so I would assume you deal with em the same way.

I say to the young ladies, "actually, YOU are too YOUNG for me, you couldn't handle me." That works REALLY good.

So I would suggest you say something like "yeah, I doubt you'd be able handle me."

JJ
 

afrojiggles

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mm...tell her that she is an older citizen then u should introduce her to your granny as ur too fast for her anc her cane,lol
 

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"You're right - All our friends would think we're both mentally ill. Heck, you'd be too old even for my dad, you should be thankful that I'm willing to be seen with you."
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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