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parents wont let me have parties... but that paying off class clown money to do that kinda sh*t is f*ckin clever.. so we'll see.. any other ideas???
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
i'm too hot, i'm on watch
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parents wont let me have parties... but that paying off class clown money to do that kinda sh*t is f*ckin clever.. so we'll see.. any other ideas???
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Man don't fu-cking worry about the other people in that class... you are merely giving them the power to screw you up if you pay them any attention. As far as getting one (or all) of those girls, it will be hard since all of them apparently like you and even though they are competing over you, none of them is going to go too far in front of the others. This is especially true because of the slu-t shield (forgot the dam-n common name of it) will be high since they don't want to look slu-tty in front of anyone.... esp. if they have bf's (which was how it was in my case). ISOLATE ISOLATE ISOLATE. These chicks will block each other yes (they are openly competitive as opposed to us guys), and when you get close to one, it will not only allow you to increase your chances with HER, but with the other ones as well since they will definitely be jealous. Good luck.
the ****blockers in your class are a good sign.
It separates the DJ from the afcs. if they are ****blocking then they are hating on you, if they are hating on you its cause theyre jealous of you.
No matter down the road the dj will always run into these types of guys, do your worst i say!
It separates the DJ from the afcs. if they are ****blocking then they are hating on you, if they are hating on you its cause theyre jealous of you.
No matter down the road the dj will always run into these types of guys, do your worst i say!
Heh, don't worry. I didn't get much further than the title of the thread. Sounds like a line in some stupid 50 Cent song, so I chose not to read much further into his post.Originally posted by Lost In Translation
PRMoon damn dude !
i didn't bother to look at the posters age
i thought he meant class as in college as in 20+
damn we got a high school forum wtf ?
my bad
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" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
hmm
Being 16 u do have a ride right? See if after class one (or more) want to go grab a bite somewhere near school. I was only 17 in college and had 3 chicks who wanted to go practice asl and were hungry. Well we all loaded up my weekend ride (daily driver at the time) and had a good "study" sesson.
For you though..... If there all 16 its the challange of finding the mature (one that will keep quiet) so the others either wont know or at least wont start rumors that will bring more problems into the game. With this problem i usually avoid anything under 18 but everyones different.
just my $.02
Being 16 u do have a ride right? See if after class one (or more) want to go grab a bite somewhere near school. I was only 17 in college and had 3 chicks who wanted to go practice asl and were hungry. Well we all loaded up my weekend ride (daily driver at the time) and had a good "study" sesson.
For you though..... If there all 16 its the challange of finding the mature (one that will keep quiet) so the others either wont know or at least wont start rumors that will bring more problems into the game. With this problem i usually avoid anything under 18 but everyones different.
just my $.02
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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please help with this situation.. i cant close this properly.. i just got the digits on the low low on one of 'em.. read the text messages:
me:hey
her: hey
me: cut out with me
her: what do u mean cut out with me
me: cut (subject) class
her: y that class
me: y u wanna cut now?
her: haha no im in class
me: wut r u doin l8r tonite?
her: prolly out, u?
me: i got something to do after school but im free at 9
her: oh
me: u wanna hang out then?
her: y wut are u planning to do.. cuz my friend *** asked to kik it today with me
me:u were always chasin me, now its time for me to chase u
her: what are u talkin about?
me: u strike me as a person who knows what she wants
her: ...
me: lets hang out and we'll talk bout it later
she didnt respond back.. wtf? is her slut shield still on?
me:hey
her: hey
me: cut out with me
her: what do u mean cut out with me
me: cut (subject) class
her: y that class
me: y u wanna cut now?
her: haha no im in class
me: wut r u doin l8r tonite?
her: prolly out, u?
me: i got something to do after school but im free at 9
her: oh
me: u wanna hang out then?
her: y wut are u planning to do.. cuz my friend *** asked to kik it today with me
me:u were always chasin me, now its time for me to chase u
her: what are u talkin about?
me: u strike me as a person who knows what she wants
her: ...
me: lets hang out and we'll talk bout it later
she didnt respond back.. wtf? is her slut shield still on?
almost perfect
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are you sure the SOI's you're getting are legit? could she be a ****tease?
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sh*ts legit.. i dunno how to play this.. i jumped on too hard... i gotta play it cool.. but i need helps on finding a way to isolate her
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Yeah man, don't jump on that shi-t too hard, or you'll lose, regardless of her previous interest. You gotta play it like you don't really like her that much and you're just trying to give her an opportunity to get with you.
I like her line: "y wut are u planning to do.. cuz my friend *** asked to kik it today with me".... classic female bullshi-t... trying to act disinterested even when they are interested in you. Her next line however really worries me:
"What are you talking about?"
Now, I have had those girls who were just so fu-cking stupid they never knew what I was talking about (happens a lot), but in your case, it might just be a sign she doesn't like you. As always, never go by what they say, but how they act.
So this girl isn't head-over-heels for you, or she would make it really easy on you, but with a little work, anything can happen. I suggest you work on one of the other girls.... watch that stupid bi-tch's face light up with jealousy when she sees you hooking up with one of them. The way I always play it in these group situations is to pay the least amount of attention to the girl I like most. Try it.
I like her line: "y wut are u planning to do.. cuz my friend *** asked to kik it today with me".... classic female bullshi-t... trying to act disinterested even when they are interested in you. Her next line however really worries me:
"What are you talking about?"
Now, I have had those girls who were just so fu-cking stupid they never knew what I was talking about (happens a lot), but in your case, it might just be a sign she doesn't like you. As always, never go by what they say, but how they act.
So this girl isn't head-over-heels for you, or she would make it really easy on you, but with a little work, anything can happen. I suggest you work on one of the other girls.... watch that stupid bi-tch's face light up with jealousy when she sees you hooking up with one of them. The way I always play it in these group situations is to pay the least amount of attention to the girl I like most. Try it.
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yup i f*cked up.. she ljbf'd me today... now im alone tonite... i tried callin my wingmen but they f*ckin busy... where da hell am i gonna find breezies in my age (17) without a wingman...
she still would want to hang out.. i dunno.. im gonna make her jealous, hit on every girl there
she still would want to hang out.. i dunno.. im gonna make her jealous, hit on every girl there
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I figured you did, just from that convo, but that's ok though.... plenty of other girls out there. If you ever get hooked up with one of those other girls, and that girl that rejected you suddenly becomes attracted to you, fu-ck her and then forget her..... hahaha, payback's a bit-ch ain't it??