"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm too horny

Franky1927

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Hey guys.

I just ended my LTR of 14 months, 14 days ago.
Now I have the feeling that I have to do everything that I couldnt do in my relationship.

Everytime I drink alcohol, I drink ALOT.
I think about having Sex with women all the time.
Everytime I notice that I cant have Sex with a girl that same night, I leave her and talk to some other girl.
I even think of Sex with my normal girlfriends.
I try to get dates with girls that I find attractive though I know their character sucks. I just want to have them for Sex without long dates.

You could say that all I think about is SEX and I want it NOW.

This will probably change after a while, when I am able to have more "serious" dates and when I have made up everything I missed in the passed.

Did anyone of you make similar experiences?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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knglerxt

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It kills me when I hear people complaining about going a few weeks or months without sex. They act like they're going to die or something. Try going several years without it and see how you feel. 14 days is nothing.
 
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