"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"I'm too busy..." Bull****!!!

War Against Betaism

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Every now and then I like to make a topic discussing about some of the teachings of David X. I literally read his stuff like it's a bible and what's great is that it's short and concise. One thing he talks about is girls making excuses to hang out because they're "busy".

David X said:
What if she just wants to be friends? What if she's not 'over' her ex? You either **** her or you don't. It's black or white. There can't be any brown, gray, or blue. You're not immortal. If she's not 'ready', it usually means, "Stick around for now until I find something better." [Do you honestly believe that your girlfriend wouldn't **** George Clooney behind your back? What if Brad Pitt showed up in her life? Would she stick around for you? You've got to be nice to you first.] If her favorite rock star asked her out, do you think she would say, "I'm washing my hair tonight"? She would probably make time for him! If she's not making time for you, that's ok. Somebody else will.
Note: The bits added in brackets is something that he mentioned in another part of the book but something I felt that goes hand in hand with this.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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True.

A woman told me this, "If you like the person, you won't be busy", as she hung up on a guy who tried to ask her out.
 
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