"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm to good looking excuse = pathetic

frivolousz21

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lets see here:

A guy who is a 6 can say pull 15 percent of cute girls from looks alone.

the guy who is a 9 can pull 95 percent of cute girls from looks alone.


this is like a guy who can throw 99 mph...and says he cant Strike out batters because he throws to hard.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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frivolousz21 said:
lets see here:

A guy who is a 6 can say pull 15 percent of cute girls from looks alone.

the guy who is a 9 can pull 95 percent of cute girls from looks alone.


this is like a guy who can throw 99 mph...and says he cant Strike out batters because he throws to hard.

No see, that's like a guy who can throw 99mph who CAN'T AIM.

Guys with looks RELY on looks alone (see Homo Joe's thread) . And I am telling you this from experience. Because I made the same mistake too.



Its kind of like seeing super-hot babes. Sure they have great booty and a nice slim body, but when the ***** opens that mouth with her shrieking voice and the stupidest words come out... only looks and no personality.... or brains.
 

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
No see, that's like a guy who can throw 99mph who CAN'T AIM...
:crackup: :up: :crackup:

Oh, that was priceless!
 

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PRMoon said:
Good looks to not equate and are no substition for solid game. I have firends who are doublessly better looking then you and they pick up girls easily. How they look may have gotten them an approach or gotten them in the door but it was all game from there. Good convos, solid lines, suave demanor, confidence, agression etc etc. They never stop short, they bring their A game for all four quarters and succeed often. Period
Recycling...because it was ignored the last time.
 

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Yes, a lot of people believe it is a ridiculous excuse, but...

This is what I gathered from reading Joe the Homophobe's thread:


Joe's Good looks

leads to

Being ignored by girls

leads to

Joe's Insecurity

leads to

Lowered self-esteem

leads to

No game because confidence is down


To try to relate that back to your original analogy with the pitcher:

Joe can pitch 99mph

leads to

being jeered by opposition fans

leads to

lowered confidence (in this case anyway)

leads to

pitching a bad game
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Joe needs to do more approaches...like the rest of us. Good looking or not, hard work, trial an error, and loads of field time are what get results. If you let confidence get down because girls ignore you because of how good looking you are, then you need to do a serious gut check. I'm good looking, I've had modeling scouts talk to me when I accompany my friends to conventions (I have an ubergood looking set of friends who take contracts in LA and NY alot) and I get more then my share of comments from girls around town. My looks however have little to do with my sucess. My effort, experience, attention to detial, and instincts have made me an excellant overall player. If something insn't working for you, especially if you have good looks to get you in the door then you've got to look inward as to what you're doing wrong.
 

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Yeah, just because he's good looking doesn't mean he should expect to not have to do ANY work to have women hanging off of him. Maybe once in a while an aggressive chick will fall into his lap, but if he wants the ones that play the game or are at least worth his time, he's going to have to have his own skills and rely on more than his looks.

If this was really a problem for him, then I would assume when he talks to women they give him the cold shoulder and tell all of their friends how hot that guy was so they were just so intimidated they froze like deer in headlights.... Somehow I doubt that's the case.
 
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