"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Im Tired of being preety/goodlooking

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Now i dont wanna brag or nothing but im just tired of it, everytime i go out on the street even if its just to the dolla store, some lady girl is always eyeing me with the interested look in her face, and dont even let me tell yall how it is when i go to a club, at first i didnt mind but now is like... dang is gettin kinda annoying, i mean even when im not trynna look for noone and havent shave amd in my mind im having a not good looking day when females see me they still wanna holler at me or give me the stare like " come get me"

I am tired of it before i use to dress up at make sure i look my best everyday to reach this point but now that i have is like, im tired of it to the point that im fed up.
The prefect example is today, i got up didnt take a bath didnt shave , i just washed my face and my teeth and went to my lil job, on my brake as i headed back to my car a coworker saw me and whe was with her friend, i came back from my break and she told me that her friend liked me and wanted to talk to me.

See people i cant help it, and im fed up.

Now i know how celebrities feel.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I think you are mad because you are not as attractive as you are goodlooking.

am I right?
 

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no you are not right, i am just as attractive , i know that most cats are gonna take this as a joke as i alrady see, but im serious, im kinda tired of it,
it is a good problem ofcourse but dang...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i dont have a scanner nor a camera on my pc,
im a 19 yr old black men, 6'2" with braids (with the busta rhymes look on the front and sides for those of u who know who he is)
and as soon as i can ill post some up.

but anyone knows how to get over this?
 
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Bfl you got the hard life bro :rolleyes: Don't wanna girls eyeing you all the time? Just make yourself less attractive then, like a shyt haircut should do the job...
 

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It aint that i dont want shorties eyeing me and wanting me ofcourse i do, i worked hard for it, but dang all the time literally every single time i step anywhere ..... i miss the challenge part of actually spittin' some game to conquer the female i wanted and doing crazy junk, oh well like i said its a good problem.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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So did you approach any of these "come get me"-staring girls?

If not, how would you know if they want to get in your pants?

Yeah, you don't.

So what was the purpose of this post again? You want tips on how to become uglier or what? If you're so "goodlooking", become a model, post a pic, or shut up.
 

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Bfl... who are you trying to fool here? Maybe you did feel that vibe when you did get checked out, but that's no reason to be pissed??? Remember, you are the only person who can make yourself pissed and most likely you care about these things so you notice them and make up an excuse to be mad. I'm not trying to hate on anything you said because I've expierenced these things myself, but self-control dude these feelings don't last that long... you don't need to post this problem... be a Don Juan, figure it out yourself first.
 

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hmm maybe girls have become boring to you, maybe you need the challenge of getting a MAN. Yup one of my teachers told me about some kid that was in his highschool that was so damn good looking that he coulda gotten any girl he wanted. He was so good looking that at the prom he stole this kids girl.
He said a few years later, he saw /met this kid and the kid was FLAMING (HOMOSEXUAL).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by bfl
i dont have a scanner nor a camera on my pc,
im a 19 yr old black men, 6'2" with braids (with the busta rhymes look on the front and sides for those of u who know who he is)
and as soon as i can ill post some up.

but anyone knows how to get over this?
Busta Rhymes? I would not call him a good looking brother. Good Looking black guys I know would be Morris Chestnut, Denzel Washington, the guy from NYPD blue and Tyrese from Fast and the Furious 2.
 

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become gay - honestly shut the f_uck up
 

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haha, this is funny. i must be good looking then cause i look like denzel washington ;)
 

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Think hot, smart, funny, stable chicks have this problem? Is that why they don't like guys that just give them compliments all the time and whorship the ground they stand on, just beacuse they look good? Beacuse theres no chalange, and they get bored by it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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