Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'm the only dude in the class

Maxtro

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LOL it actually happened. In my summer school class I'm the only dude. With a name like "Feminism and Globalization" it's not surprising that there are a lot of women but to be the only dude is just unreal.

BTW the only reason I'm taking the class is because I need three "capstone" classes to graduate and this class is a capstone.

So far there isn't any "Men are the enemy" vibe that I can feel. Though I know all eyes are going to be on me since I am the only guy. I've already cracked a couple of jokes and had the class laughing a couple of times.

So now I'm wondering what is the best way to get some action? Obviously there is no shortage of women even though less than half are "quality."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Start talking to girls and invite them out afterwards for coffee or lunch or whatever. Be social and friendly, and build social proof by being open and talkative to everyone. The girls that are interested will weed themselves out and start showing interest to you.
 

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Looks like you will have to be very pro-womans rights and if you speak out bout it in class it will get you some positive attention, at the same time you need to prove you are not a wuss to be walked all over. You need to appear strong with strong opinions.
 

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I really don't see what the big deal is about being alone in a class full of women. If you don't have the confidence and skills to approach a girl when she's by herself,how does increasing the number of women help?

Instead of having one girl to screw up with or be afraid to approach,now you have 30. Unless you have the knowledge and the willingness to approach one girl,having the room full of girls won't matter.

In fact,without any approaching skills at the ready,I see it as a disadvantage. For one,if you see these women frequently,as in everyday or every other day,you GREATLY increase your chances of hitting up the friendzone. The more they see you,the more time you spend in their presence NOT BEING ROMANTIC/SEXUAL,the more they get used to the NOT ROMANTIC,NONSEXUAL you. It's basically a friendzone by default kind of thing.

So if you've been in this class for a while,laughing,joking,and playing around with these women while NOT BEING SEXUAL,then it's probably already over with...at least with the ones you've been interacting with.
 

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After two sessions I realize that this class is pretty much like any other class I've taken.

The professor lectures for the vast majority of the time and you can only talk to people before and after class.

For some reason I was expecting a different dynamic being the only male in a room filled with women. In a porno they would all throw themselves at me but sadly I don't live in pornland.

I'm just wondering how I can turn things sexual without getting the fury of the room focused solely on me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maxtro said:
I'm just wondering how I can turn things sexual without getting the fury of the room focused solely on me.
you don't. Be social before and after class, invite them out with you outside of class and game them individually like any other girls. There ya go.
 

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Maxtro said:
For some reason I was expecting a different dynamic being the only male in a room filled with women. In a porno they would all throw themselves at me but sadly I don't live in pornland.
Whip it out and see what happens :D
 

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Igetit! said:
I really don't see what the big deal is about being alone in a class full of women. If you don't have the confidence and skills to approach a girl when she's by herself,how does increasing the number of women help?

Instead of having one girl to screw up with or be afraid to approach,now you have 30. Unless you have the knowledge and the willingness to approach one girl,having the room full of girls won't matter.

In fact,without any approaching skills at the ready,I see it as a disadvantage. For one,if you see these women frequently,as in everyday or every other day,you GREATLY increase your chances of hitting up the friendzone. The more they see you,the more time you spend in their presence NOT BEING ROMANTIC/SEXUAL,the more they get used to the NOT ROMANTIC,NONSEXUAL you. It's basically a friendzone by default kind of thing.

So if you've been in this class for a while,laughing,joking,and playing around with these women while NOT BEING SEXUAL,then it's probably already over with...at least with the ones you've been interacting with.
I got to totally agree with all this. Being the only guy in a class is not the advantage you think it it would. I've been there before. I think it's actually if anything a disadavantage really. Now if you had 3 guys in a class of rest women, that's probably about idea. If there's just 2 guys it can setr up a competion vibe, and more than three is just a waste.

What I think you'd want to do is take a basic nursing class requirement like nutrition or something that meets in a large class. There will be lots of women who in it who aren't all feminist and just a few guys.
 

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That has to be the worst class of all time. Fem & glo

Why? This is just another piece of evidence of indoctrination and propaganda in colleges.

The Rockef3llers funded feminism in the 1920's for the sole reason of taxing the female population and taking the parents out of the house, and having their kids look to the state, schools and officials as the family.


They also had a role in WW1, WW2, and Nine Eleven to forward the agenda in Globalization.

They might as well have a class called Planting & Communism.

The first step is to not worry about these people and to forgive them and those who have given in to the system.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Oh, you lucky guy! Just try to speak to the girls you like before and after class and see what happens. You can start the talk with some questions about class and then you can try to get more personal.
 
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