"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Im sure this thread has been done before but here goes

XSilverStarboyX

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I want to share the type of women to stay away from. Im maybe somewhat of an AFC still but I will share my experiences on what to stay away from.

Flakey Girls
These are the type of girls who love you one minute and then the next minute she wants to see you dead. I put up with this crap for too long before putting my foot down. Its truly not worth the drama

Attention *****s
She wants your attention 24/7, and she always needs to be reminded shes beautiful. I think you should always let your girl know shes beautiful but not all the time. She will also tend to have a nasty habit of calling you non stop. No matter how late, or if your at work or school. May possibly eevn make up stories just for your attention

Controlling Freaks
Another pain in the ass. This is the type of girl who is probobly used to AFCs and controlling them. Dont let yourself be next. This type of girl will think she can tell you what to do whenever. She probobly wont even let you hang out with other friends

The Jealous Type
The type of girl who always thinks your out to cheat on her. She wont even let you look at a girl or talk to her. Even if its just about a movie or something. I think I have described enough here.

Flirty Girls
These are also called sunshine girls, correct me if Im wrong. But she basicly flirts with everything thats a male. Even if she doesnt truly mean it, she will eventually cheat. I dated a girl who flirts all the time and she eventually did cheat on me.

I hope this was good advice. My first girlfriend actually showed me a lot of these things. For she was; an attention *****, control freak, and a flirty girl. I cant wait to hear feedback


edit: How could I forget this last one

Persistant Girls
She will usually beg and plead for you to go out with her till you finally do. Says a lot about the type of girl she will be. Means she will be most of the above. I fell into this trap in February, dont get involved in the drama I did
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well, great post, but I hate to be negative, however...

I have found most girls (hot ones particularly) display at least one of these traits, if only to a small extent. Most HB8-10s (and these are the ones we want, right?!) are generally attention wh*res and/or flirty types.

Why? Because they can get away with it!! And who can blame them I guess, it must be fun being able to get pretty much anyone you want, or attention whenever you need some.

So good post, but I would say good luck in finding an attractive girl who doesn't fall into at least one of those categories..
 
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