"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Colinski282

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I have a gorgeous ex, i took her virginity and we dated almost a year, broke up a few of months before. I texted her on the day that would have been one year and we did alot of catching up, she has a new bf or whatever so we just texted from 10 am to like 5pm talking about stuff, finally that night i sent her a nice text sayin it was nice catching up ill be thinkin of her. I expected for that to be that maybe shell call me when she is done with her new relationship.

So the following night at 11 pm she texts me "Be Careful This Weekend!!!! <3"
I simply replay back Thanks Ill try!

This text from her threw me through a loop, why did she text me the following day with that <3 to it.....im sure may have just been thinkin of me. Would u guys initiate another text in the near future?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I love exes they are so easy to get.. But do you want this ex? Really do you want seconds? Do you want to wait along the sidelines waiting and hoping the break up? Technically your at the mercy of the boyfriend who holds all the cards.

Surely you do not want to live a life like that. Get your **** together man.
 
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speed dawg

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Stop texting and get another girl. It meant nothing to her. While you thought she was "thinking of you", she was actually getting the fukked in the face by her boyfriend.
 
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I mean you really have to ask if you want her... She is you ex for a reason.. Either you didn't want her if so think about why you didn't want her and amplify that reason and this is the reason you do not still want her. You have better things to do. If she ended it, she showed complete disrespect..

The time I got my ex was twice same chick.. But I ended it the two times prior to getting her.. Man cutting the ex was the best thing I ever did in my life, it was never going to be the same... Once you have had them and you had problems, things will never be the same.. Especially if there were some problems when you's were together.

To get a ex back, you have to flirt and be confident obviously. Just mention things you's did together and that she loved. Also she could tell her boyfriend so you have to be ready to fight. Really just make her want the old feelings back.

But I question why you would want you ex back.. Exes are ****ed at one stage I was trying to get mine back because I wanted a freeee puzzy supply, now when going for her I was hooking up with her and she said she loved me one day the next she had this other guy she liked who she was running on the low. I even ****ing called her and reasoned that I am the better man.. No NO No.. In fact he was a chump. Then I toughened up and cut her out.. Next thing you know she is trying to get me back again..

Moral is keep your distance and when you's do intereact make it positive..

In the end you don't need her, you need to fix youself up... I understood that I will never be happy getting if I am not happy without one. Yes this is cliched here but her is why..

I was constantly searching for validation.. Okay did she talk to me.. validated.. Did she give me the number.. validated.. DId she talk to me and set up the date.. validated.

You see you believe to yourself if I JUST get the number everything will be better. But never isn't you know why?? Because man always wants more then he has.. So in essence a man cann never be happy, that is why self improvement is soo good. You can keep progressing..

Enough with this really sit down think about what you want and get your shiyt together. Also judge how much you like her but how much she likes you because thats all that matters.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Let me clarify a few things, if i were to have oneitis and only trying to get back my ex that would be a definte problem. However i am focusing my effort on all available females...Ive been going on dates with other girls and with every oppurtune moment im improving my game on pullin numbers.
I just kind of want to see if i can do it, i will assume she likes me and act accordingly (please read "kiss of death" on main site, wow good article)....you right a guy wants what he cant have.
 
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<3s mean nothin i put a <3 in when i email tech support man

dont let it **** wit u jus be friendly and maybe u can get ex-sex whe nthey break up or somethin but dont let it take over ur brain
 
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