im stuck

[smoothtalker72]

i met this girl a few months ago. we've been going out just about every day, and yes we have f**ked. thing is, i found out she has/had a boyfriend in another state. if i were just after the lay i wouldnt mind but right now im looking for a relationship. when shes with me she acts like shes my girlfriend, she does everything a girlfriend would do, we go out like boyfriend and girlfriend and not just f**k buddies. but i still feel like her (ex?)boyfriend is looming over my head even though she hardly talks about him. take last week for example, we were playing with eachother's phones reading text messages and i saw one from her ex(?) that wasnt so much friendly as it was an "i love you baby" type of message (not word for word) and she responded accordingly. no i didnt mention it to her instead i ignored it and we proceeded to make out on her mom's bed.

anyway, im wondering what i should do to find out where we stand. i like where things are now and i dont want to ruin them but at the same time id like for it to go somewhere. i dont want to just outright ask her if she broke up with her boyfriend or what she thinks about us. but nevertheless im stuck.

 

[jeffthechef]

ask her. find out what she's willing to do. if she'll break up then it's good for you. if she won't, you won't get a relationship so move on. if you just want to fuk her, and a relationship isn't p;ossible, she'll probably keep fukin you till you're not willing cause it seems that upt o this point it hasn't bothered her.
BUT HONESTLY...fukin before even having a relationship doesn't help. cause the relationship has already been headed in the wrong direction. but it's not too late i suppose

 

[Conquer]

keep it moving bro, she cheated on him and she'll cheat on you. Save your time

 

[smoothtalker72]

i wouldnt necessarily call it cheating. we're both in highschool, her "boyfriend" lives 9 hours away. she hasnt seen him in months. but yea i like what jeff said.

 

[Kevin Cass]

get it out of your mind, your in highschool just have fun and enjoy your time with her whilke your still in highschool, cuz u might go away for college or she might go away. dont let some guy thats 9 hours or whatever hours away ruin your mood, at the end of the day who is she blowing..you or him?